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What should I do, Im scared!!?

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Okay, so there's this guy and his name is Dan. He's 45 years old, married, with kids, and I went to canobie with him, my uncle, and my cousins. And the only reason I was there was because one of my cousins is autistic and I was going to help. So right when I get there Dan comes up and puts his arm around me and just starts walking with me, and I was like what the heck? But I didn't say anything cause I'm too shy. (Im 18 by the way) and we get to the first ride were going to go on and everyone kinda split up and went there own way and I was trying to figure out who to sit next to when he whispers in my ear, sit next to me in the back, and ofcourse, I was like uhm okay, even though I felt weird about that. But I did and it was fine, until I got off and he had his arm around my shoulder again. Anyways later when I was there this guy I knew and was just friends with came over and gave me a hug and I hugged him back and Dan came over and was like okay that's enough and then practically dragged me away from him. I found that soo rude but I didn't say anything. And towards the end of the day we were talking about who was easier to read, guys or girls, and this girl standing next to me was like oh is he your dad and I immediately said ha, no! And then I thought she would think I was weird so I was going to explain that he was one of my moms old friends but he interupted me and I was like I'm a.friend. And I was just like oh yeah, he's a friend. But he's not my friend. He's my moms friend. And I caught him staring at me a few times too, which made me feel so self concious so we went to his car because some of the others wanted food and water and stuff and I was looking in the reflection trying to make myself look better when Dan was like relax you look great. So I kinda blushed and was oh thanks. So anyways that was Canobie. Then like three days later my cell phone rings right and it was him. It was a text message that said pg. And I wrote back and was like what does that mean. And he called me back and said that it was a mistake and that somehow his locked phone, unlocked itself in his pocket and sent me a text. And I believed him until I talked to one of my best friends and she was like no, he's lying and now I believe her instead. And I already told her all this stuff and she thinks that he likes me, but I really don't know. Can someone please tell me what they think? Thank you soo much, and sorry about the length!

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  1. yes i am pretty sure he fines a atraction in to you that hecanttfinede in his wife even though he is your moms friend an has his own family you need to have a talke to him an don'tt be shy because he can end up touching you  


  2. Ok - He does like you!  And that is gross!  He is your mom's friend and that is very inappropriate!  Distance yourself from him.  Limit the time you have to be around him as much as possible and be straight forward with him.  Let your mother know that he is creeping you out and listen to your instincts.  Be upfront with him, and tell him that he is making you uncomfortable.  Let him know that he is your MOM'S friend and that you have always and will always see him as such.  Tell him "you are making me uncomfortable, can you please stop."  He will try to ridicule you and embarass you because he is an idiot, so be prepared.  Also go away to college and get the h**l out of that town.  If you have any younger siblings, male or female, warn them of his behavior and be sure that they know that HE is being inappropriate.  Do not send him mixed signal by trying to be nice.  He is a disgusting predator and needs to stop.  Good luck and take care of yourself:)

  3. You really have to stop being so quiet. When he put his arm around you should have said something. All you are doing is blushing and remaining silent. You should be more open to how you feel and if he made you feel awkward take his arm off your shoulder and say something a little stern. If you only say a few words people will begin to think you are odd because they will have no idea where you are coming from.  

  4. It definitely sounds like he was trying to get with you while he was away on vacation.  I would ignore him if he calls or txt again and do your best to not be left alone in a room with him.  Also, stop being soo polite!  If a guy your age was putting the moves on you and you didn't want him to, would you let him get away with it?  No.  So don't let this guy either.  If he says something inappropriate again, straight up tell him no, your not interested, that comment was inappropriate.

  5. Well just tell him that he needs to keep his distance. Say that you aren't comfortable with what he is doing. If you don't something could happen, so do something next time he tries to make a move. Yeah that phone thing was fake. I've done it before. lol. But seriously, that guy is too old and has a family.

    I wish you all the best.

    Dan

    lol I mean Daniel. Thats creeepy. haa.

  6. Tell him to stop, don't be alone with him, be direct and don't bend. Call him out on things that make you uncomfortable. If he persists, tell your mom. If he's her friend, I'm sure they can talk.

    If he makes you feel weird, don't spend time with him.

  7. Stop allowing yourself to get into situations you know are wrong. Speak up and tell him to stay away from you. Don't call him or accept his calls or messages. Otherwise you are headed for big trouble. Stay far, far away from him. Be smart.

  8. Did what he do make you uncomfortable? Keep your distance. While it may be flattering to receive attention, if you think its inappropriate or awkward, stay away from it.

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