What should I do, fellow Y!A?

Question

I feel like im stumbling through life. Choices. Careers. And no one can help me so I am alone.. deciding on choices. careers. gcse etc etc. Since for ages, sicne I was like 6 I have wanted to be an actress. Since about a year ago, I liked the idea of becoming a west end actress because no body knows you THAT much, you can go bouhh uur life like normal people.. no scary paparazii nd people knowing your business. And that was the desicion I made when i decided that I should go back into acting because my mum had nearly brainwashed me that the key to happiness is a degree in medicine as a doctor lol.

But like people like J-Lo, Mariah Carey, Beyonce they are my idols. Not idols like I worship them, that would be un holy, but like people I respect and think they are some one to look up to. And it would be so cool to be like that. But I dotn want to be like Mischa barton or someone who like they were big and like now people still know their names but like there are kinda forgotten or peoles who r like kerry katona and need fame for the living and do stupid reality shows or people who need fame as their lviing and do how many interviews in magazines and make perfumes and clothes likie jordan. I want to be like J-Lo. She rarley deos interviews and she is successful.

want to be like J-Lo. She rarley deos interviews and she is successful. And I dont want my own website ! NO "OFFICAL CONSTANCE WEBSITE" LIKE ALL STARZ DO.

Answer 1

You don't want to be an actress.

You want to be famous.

If you wanted to be an actress, you'd be acting in Little Theatre, not daydreaming of being famous.

Answer 2

Kimberley from American Idol was in law school and now she is famous singer, more so in U.K. than U.S.A. Look at what you really like about the stars you admire. Is it the clothing line, perfume line, etc. Maybe you could try a new career in the fashion industry.

Answer 3

1 in 10.000 actors ever make it big time drop the dream and come on down to reality be a doctor like mum said other wise dead end

Answer 4

You should stop stressing, find something you are good at, and stick to it.

Answer 5

It sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders. I would not be afraid to do anything if I was you. Just stick to your roots and stay true to yourself, you will be fine.