What should I do, my best friends friend who shes in love with has asked me out.?

Question

The guy who shes in love with, they have know each other for many years, but he doesn't want anything more because he doesn't want to ruin their friendship. Id be extremely happy going out with him, but I dont want people to think that I only think of my self.

Answer 1

Yeah you wil be extremely happy. She wil be extremely upset. You can ask her if its ok to date him. She'll stil hate you even she says its okay. So if you wanna keep her as a bff. Lay off the man she likes and just be happy with the knowledge that he likes you.

Answer 2

i would ask your friend. but even though she might say yes you neeed to rethink it again cause she might be doing the guilt trick with you. my frriend does that to me all the time and even if she isnt trying to make you feel guilty than think about which relationship you really care a bout. you and this guy? or you and your friend?

Answer 3

ouch.. if i wear u i would ask ure friend if it ok with her.. then ill go out... coz ppl might start sayin shiit behind ure back

Answer 4

If you havent spoken to yur best friend about this you should do this first and tell her how you feel about the boyand see what she says. But make sure that she doesnt think that your taking him  away from her and they can both still be good friends.