What should I do, my wife is upset about something but god knows what?

Question

Ever since Friday she's been quiet, were both normally quiet but this time it was nothing ordinary.

So I broke the silence and asked her what's the matter, and she said nothing. Its been 3 days and she's still the same, I think it's work related, but she doesn't want to talk and I'm starting to get frustrated, because I want to know nonetheless.

You can only have so little patience.

Answer 1

Explain to your wife that communication is necessary for a successful marriage.  If she isn't willing to talk to you, then suggest counseling.  If she refuses...then your marriage obviously isn't a priority to her.

Answer 2

Unfortunately,if she doesnt want t talk about it, theres very little you can do but be patient. She will talk when shes good and ready but not before and if you push her, youll only compound the problem and then youll actually end up being the problem so  waiting is not the worst thing here

Answer 3

sounds like ur headed for a nasty divorce

Answer 4

My husband has been mad for three weeks now, I am enjoying the peace & quiet.  ;-)

Answer 5

i know alot of time when i get tired and don't feel like talk and would like my moment of peace and don't want to be bothered is usually right around my menstrual cycle, usually if she says nothing is wrong maybe its just nothing she just  is having a quiet moment that is all, its probably nothing you done, but woman's hormones is something crazy, my husband does not even bother me when its that time i let him know ahead of time and he know to be nice and affectionate and extra care when it is that time of month for me it can be emotional i just can explain it takes over

Answer 6

In effect, she is violating her promises to you in getting married. Clear and timely communication about such issues is a must in any successful marriage, and her refusal to do that is whats dishonouring your marriage.

She has to either learn to communicate clearly, or you have no hope for a life with her. No one can be married to a self created mute.  

Answer 7

let me guess she caught you masterbating to g*y p**n?

NO DICE

Answer 8

Remind her she can talk you you and you are there for her to lean on.  Tell that her mood is affecting you and you are only asking because you want to help. Even if it's just to listen.

She might be mad at you, herself or the world. I've known plenty of women who think that brooding gets the point across. Trust me, women are bad at expressing themselves, properly, just like men.

Answer 9

I'm sure when shes ready to tell you she will.. Sometimes people keep things in for a while to think about it, before they are ready to talk. Give her time, dont push her to tell you or it just might take her longer to tell you whats on her mind.

Answer 10

Yeah, i agree with fire wife I feel like i'm on a little vacation when my husband gives me the silent treatment.  don't worry your wife is  going to have to talk to you  at some point.  

Answer 11

Give her some time. She'll come around. Just keep comforting her whenever possible. Remind her that she's still loved and that you care about her.

Eventually she'll open up.