What should I do, this is literally torture!?

Question

p*ssy. I think something is wrong with him. And the bad part is that he's staying with me until August 12! Help!

Answer 1

That boy needs an attitude adjustment. I don't know about your town but you should look around and see if their is some summer activity you can put him in during the day. I don't care if he is going through a stage or not he has no right to treat you like that. His parents have failed to raise him right since he was born and they have caused all of his attitude problems themselves. You need to tell them that if you are going to keep him all summer they are going to have to talk to him and tell him to behave or you will just take him back home and let them deal with him since he is their responsibility not yours. That boy has some major problems and he needs help. It seems his parents don't care enough to get him the help he needs and maybe you should talk with a social worker and see what they recommend. If someone doesn't stop him now he is going to rape or kill someone. His behavior is not normal and his parents need a wake up call.

Answer 2

Unless you want to live with this all summer, you better call his parents and tell them this isn't going to work.  Even if you agreed to this originally, you can tell them that you have decided this won't work.

Answer 3

if he is that bad send him back. i don't know why his parents told you that you have to deal with him. he isn't your child send him back. he sounds like he is mentally ill from lack of discipline

Answer 4

He sounds like a spoiled brat.  I would call mommy & daddy & tell them they need to find someone else to watch their "little darling" and they also need to get some psychiatric help.  This boy will grow up to be worthless if they don't.  They need to show some tough love before it's too late!  I'm praying for you, sweetie.

Answer 5

It sounds to me like he is desperately looking for someone to take charge and behave like an adult, and give him some clear rules and discipline - I feel sorry for him. Either you need to find a way to step up and be that adult that he so badly needs, or you need to return him to his parents. This sort of situation can definately not be allowed to continue. Remember you are in control, he is only a child. A 12 year old should not be expected to be home alone with nothing much to do every day - I don't know what the solution is but something different will need to be done. Good luck

Answer 6

Get him out of there before one on you gets hurt!

Answer 7

WHY DID HIS PARENTS SHIP HIM OFF FOR THE SUMMER ?  AHHHHH  THE MYSTERY IS SOLVED..........

Any kid that hurt me, would get the police called on him.  He needs to be nipped in the bud and the cops may be a wake up call to him and his parents.  You are crazy for uprooting your whole life for this ungrateful brat.  Tell his parents point blank, you can't do it anymore because your recovering from your injuries he has inflicted upon your body and your mental capacity.  He is not your responsibility, put the burden back on the ones who made him.  His pervertedness is reason alone.  He needs psychological help before he grows up and becomes a menace to society - I mean quick !!

Answer 8

lock him in his room he is a FU**ing brat, you must tell him that you will dump him in the middle of new york if he does not stop.

He is a sic sic kid , Send him to a councileer or put him in boarding school. Or better yet SEND HIM BACK TO PARENTS> Tell em that you cant take care of this little fuc*er

Try this do you have a basement or bathroom if so lock him in their untill he sas sorry of apologises . Tell him if he does not like what you cook go eat out of teh rubbish.

good luck with this little s**+*

i feel your pain you poor thing

ps or try crush up sleeping pills and mix it with his coke or whatever

or ritalin he most likely has add

And send him to a doctor

god luck :)

Answer 9

There are many things wrong with what you wrote. At 12 he is too old to be sleeping with you, if anyone found out, you could get in a LOT of trouble. Have him sleep on the floor.  Some of what he is doing is normal for 12. He probably resents having to stay with you, he wants to be at his own house and with his friends, however, you either need to find something to keep him occupied and find a way to lay down some house rulesthat you can enforce or simply tell his parents, you can't keep him with you anymore. After all, he's really there problem, not yours.

Answer 10

I say you take him to a therapist or a psychologist and if that doesn't work, send him back with his parents or ask if there's any other relatives who are really strict and can discipline him.  this is NOT normal  for a 12 year old!!!!! (I have a 12 year old brother and he doesn't act this way at all!!! except for the beating up part- it makes him feel manly! lol) well anyways i feel really bad for you! i'm sure the parents aren't THAT busy with work- I'm sure they just can't deal with him anymore and hope that when he comes back, he'll be respectful and skinny and changed

Answer 11

It sounds like he has more than just plain old behavioral problems. Getting on the floor and crying? Stripping until he is naked when he gets mad? Was he born with some mental disabilities? Because I can see a young child doing that, but a 12 year old...not normal at all...

I think it was great of you to try to help your aunt and uncle, but this kid has some issues that you can't deal with. His parents obviously don't have a grip on his discipline at all and they aren't taking responsibility for their own kid. I am in a similar situation though nowhere near the severity of yours.

Send him home. This isn't fair to you and his parents should be dealing with this. And they should take him to a psychiatrist too.

And if he is hurting you and making suggestive comments that are innapropriate, you have every right to call the police. And I would do it if I were you. If he can "beat" you in a physical fight, how do you know he can force you down and rape you?

Answer 12

Why would you agree to watch him when you work so much?  Send him back to his parents there is no reason for you to put up with him.

Answer 13

I am sorry...Why are you watching him for the summer?  He isn't your responsibility.  They can either take care of him themselves or find someone else to do it.  There is no reason why you should have to take this kind of a abuse from their child.  It sounds like they don't know how to deal with him so they are pawning him off on other family.  I commend you for wanting to help but you shouldn't be burdened with this if he is doing what you say he is doing.  If they won't come and pick him up..honestly as harsh as it sounds call child protective services.  It is THEIR job to parent him whether they want to or not.

WOW just read the last comment....NOT OKAY about the sexual comments. That is NOT normal.  I would definitely tell them he can't stay and that he has made inappropriate comments towards you and needs help.