What should I do, what would YOU do?

Question

we live far from each other, he's working all the time, and we barely talk on the phone anymore. I'm in the process of moving even FURTHER away from him and I'm going to be working like crazy after I do. I really like him. Might possibly even love him, but I don't see how its gunna work. I don't want to miss him anymore. but I don't want to lose him... something has to be done tho.

Answer 1

If you are willing to throw away love for a technicality then you have a bigger problem than distance.

That's not an insult or a bash.  I'm simply saying if you were really into him you'd MAKE THE EFFORT.  Since you're not, then you already have your answer.

It'll hurt for awhile but you'll get over it, pretty quick I'm guessing.

If it was a child of yours, how far is TOO far to maintain the relationship?  See what I mean by importance.

Answer 2

All ur concerns should be his concern instead.  Pls, stop worrying about this if he is not even worrying about it.  if a man truly loves u , he will go the extra mile for u and him to meet, talk etc

but if he is not into u.. just forget it.

Answer 3

I will answer this as I have been through a similar situation -

I will have to choose. Since I can't have both, which would have been ideal in this situation, my choice would be to choose the one which I know will see me through in the longer term. I will let my head rule over my heart.

Whether or not you stay on, you are not going to get to see him much or talk to him much either way. So I would say, move and start afresh. There's always something better waiting for you out there. If you don't take this opportunity, you may live to regret it. From what you have written, I don't detect that you have a relationship in the first place. So why hang on to an illusion?

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