What should I do, when I really hate my USED TO BE friend?

Question

What should I do? My USED TO BE friend brought up a fight with me. The issue is already solved but not until tomorrow morning (which is today), she started defending herself again. I mean, I'm the one who suppose to be mad here, not her; Due to the fact that the fight was her fault. I just hate her face! Ugh! I really hate her and I don't know hat to do anymore. Please tell me what to do to get over with this. Ugh! Help!!

Answer 1

hunny, move on with life, because if she is acting like the victim when shes not, then you absolutely dont deserve a friend like that....

Answer 2

i was in the same situation i just ignored her and moved on sometimes i hear people bring it up or say hey aren't you so and so's friend and im like no gosh!! it takes a white but just ignore it

Answer 3

that happens to me sooo much... i get mad at one of my friends and then they turn it around on me... try to forget about the fight and avoid the topic that caused it.

Answer 4

Get over yourself.

Apparently...if your still having this problem, then your doing something wrong.

Contact the idiots parents if she's harassing you while your ignoring her or something. If you told her to just leave you alone and you'd leave her alone, and she doesn't do her share, then...she's obviously violating some lines and you should do something about that.

Don't be a jerk though.

Answer 5

YOU CAN ONLY HATE SOMEONE AS MUCH AS YOU LOVE THEM, SO IF SHE IS A GOOD FRIEND I WOULD JUST PUT ALL OF THIS BEHIND YOU!  AND THEN AS TIME GOES ON, AFTER EVERYTHING BLOWS OVER I WOULD TELL HER HOW THAT MADE YOU FEEL AND THAT YOU DID NOT LIKE IT!  AND THEREFORE IF ANYTHING LIKE THAT HAPPENS AGAIN IT WILL POTENTIALLY BREAK UP YOUR FRIENDSHIP!  GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 6

Just avoid any communication with her. The friendship is over, move on and don't nurse grudges.

Answer 7

ignore her. shes not worth your time if all she wants is drama.

Answer 8

ditch the *****.

Answer 9

my use to be friend hangs out with popular girls (I'm going to laugh when she back stabs them like she did 2 me)

Answer 10

What was the fight about?

If you really want her to leave you alone, swallow your pride and admit it was your fault (even if it wasn't).

If you want to be friends with her still, try and work it out maturely.

Answer 11

I completely understand what you're going through.  She sounds like an attention seeker, and a real chore to be around.  Just avoid her.  She will eventually get in your face again.  Once she starts ranting, simply walk away, don't make a comment, don't make a face, don't speak at all.  Walk away.  She wants to get a reaction out of you, so if you continually don't give her one, she'll drop it and move on to someone else.  

Answer 12

do something fun, and with time any relationship can heal.

Answer 13

Ditch that *****!

Answer 14

just ignore her. she's just wants attention.

Answer 15

Here is what I would do....1)Tell her straight up that she needs to leave you alone or else 2) If she still won't leave you alone then walk past her with your friends and bf and tell her again. 3)This time if she won't leave you alone then 'promise' her that she will regret it. then fight her w/ ur friends.

Hope this was helpful bye

Answer 16

IF SHE WAS A REALLY GOOD FRIEND THAN YOU TWO WILL GET OVER IT, EVERYONE HAS FIGHTS BUT IF SHE WAS JUST A FRIEND AND LIKE WHATEVER THEN DROP HER YOU DON'T NEED DRAMA IN YOUR LIFE

SO ONLY TIME WILL TELL IF YOU TWO WERE MEANT TO BE FRIENDS OR NOT