What should I do, women please help???

Question

There is this girl I like a lot........and there is this other girl who is sending me anonymous messages about how she likes me & stuff. We got deep into things & she said something about something that was really personal to me. I sort of blew up at her about it & said maybe we should not talk anymore because I like someone else any way.

But now the girl I like is not talking to me because she was the one sending me the messages. If I knew it was her I would not have said what I said. I was really mean to her but I did not know I was talking to her at all.

What should I do? When I saw her she was really upset & crying & that is when she told me. It has been 2 days she will not answer her phone & she blocked me on facebook. I never wanted to hurt her never in my life! How can I get her to talk to me again?

Answer 1

So, you were "really mean" to the girl you don't like, and now the girl you DO like is being mean to you.

Ever heard of "what goes around, comes around"?

Next time you decide to be "really mean" to someone, even if you don't "like" them, maybe you could think about the consequeneces of what that act may be, and remember how much it hurts to be unfairly accused and badly teated by someone you thought was a friend.

I notice you don't mention that you apologised to the first girl ~ she was just the rubbish you could throw away when you didn't need her any more.

You need to change your ways or people will regard you as a complete user, which is pretty much how you have behaved.

If you want to make this right, apologise to the girl you hurt (she may choose not to forgive you, that's her right), and then suck it up. Try to behave like you think a good person would, treat everyone with equal respect and check your facts BEFORE blasting off!

In time, the girl you like may get over it, or you may find someone else, who you can try to treat with respect.

Cheers :-)

Answer 2

Have you said the simplest thing you can say....look her right in the eye and say I'm sorry....then tell her that the girl you like is her

I'm sorry doesn't seem big...but if you really mean it she'll know

Answer 3

Well maybe you should tell one of her friends to tell her you want to talk to her... then you guys talk over it... it might be fine after awhile

Hope it works.... really I do