What should I do? Boy troubles....?

Question

I really like this guy and I have done for ages. Recently he started liking my friend but she told me she didn't really like him. Last night she had a party and we ended up camping out in a tent and playing truth or dare. One of my dares was to kiss my crush which was great and I thought that maybe it could mean something because all night he had been making me feel kind of special. Then during the night, my crush and my friend were kissing and cuddling...they're not going out and last time I spoke to my friend about it, she said that she wouldn't go out with him. I really don't know what to do because now I have kissed him I don't know what to do next...I like him so much and after that kiss, I like him even more! Please help me. What should I do?

Answer 1

Sounds like your crush is hooked on your friend.  Your friend is TRYING to give you some respect for your feelings and not succeeding too well.  She is a good friend though and likes this guy.  You should give her your approval and realize you can't make someone like you when they don't.  

It hurts I know...we have all liked and fantasized about someone we wanted and thought was our knight in shining armour...even for YEARS....but you cannot make it happen if he doesn't cooperate.

Move on sweetie...find someone else.  When I was 14 I had a major crush on Bob ....thought he was the end all be all.  He  knew it too...but he never liked me back.  It killed me to see him with other girls...

but I found and met the man who was to be my husband years later and we have been married 40 years.  Bob on the other hand  has been divorced and not such a stable person.  things work out in the end.....

You will have years of dating...give yourself the chance to enjoy life and give others a chance to show you how good they are and find someone who wants you.  It will last longer and it will be sweeter because they will try harder  instead of YOU doing all the work.

Answer 2

Thats a tough situation.Your friend who "says" she does like your crush actually kissed him even though you asked her earlier.This is telling me that she does have some feelings for him...but that;s just me!You need to know exactly how she feels about him so that you can act appropriately.If you know this then you will know if the guy in turn has feelings for her or you because as you said,the dare you did would have obviously told him"I LIKE YOU A LOT."He seems to like you but your friend has the whole situation too mixed up!Talk to her first and ask her to lay off if she doesn't like him.

Good Luck.Hope you get through.

Answer 3

you really have to tell him the truth, text him or just call him so much. just dont make yourself like a girl whos dying for him because that is bad cause you might end up getting used and getting hurt. just be careful. good luck

Answer 4

leave him alone,he already kissed your friend,nope. that might be a conflict.... you and her are friends let it stay that way.they are touching and feeling each other.

Answer 5

i  think you should talk first seperately with that guy and the girl..

because you do not know what's with them already.. it is better for you to find it out now than later..  

Answer 6

give it three months and you won't care