Me and my boyfriend are in college. In our early 20's, we have been dating for almost a year now. We are in love, however he doesn't fully trust me. I am a very attractive girl. ( not S****y but just beautiful, I'm more like a nerd and dress conservatively all the time)
Anyways, he thinks I am getting attention from other guys. Which I am but I reject the attention and advances. And last night I told him how earlier yesterday a guy approached me and I turned him down but it seems he just got more upset with me. But I told him so he could see I'm being honest with him. I want him to know I am telling him the truth and telling him everything.
And I was kind of mad when I told him because he has been saying more lately "If you can't be happy with me then go and find some other guy, I don't care, it's what you want." But these words are coming out of the blue because I really love him and am really happy with him, it hurts me that he would say such a thing and start acting rude with me.
Eversince, college started he has been more rude with me and he jokes but it puts me down and makes me feel bad about myself. Sometimes I get to the point where I say "I can't do this anymore" and his attitude immediately changes and he is very nice. I love him so much .....
....... I want to stay with him but what can I do to help the situation?
Why is my boyfriend acting like this? I love him and he loves me and he and I know it so why has he been acting so rude lately?
He really is a nice guy, but it's like I'm seeing another side of him that makes me feel frustrated.
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