What should I do? Family Crisis?

Question

Okay, so I have a really good family friend named Paul and he has a girlfriend named Sue. Sue has two kids, an 8 year old (Caleb) and a 10 year old (Corbin). If Caleb or Corbin do the littlest things like lie, Paul freaks out at them and makes them dress up in a button-down shirt and tie everywhere they go, send them to a day camp, and makes them eat Cheerios for breakfast, lunch, and dinner, while everyone else eats a good meal and the worst part is, Caleb helps my dad make the dinner (he loves to cook). The kids are the nicest and politest kids I've ever met. My brother and his friend snuck him food and Sue doesn't want to admit that Paul is being to harsh. My dad talked to Paul already, but it didn't help a bit. The kids both agree that their mom's BOYFRIEND is making all the discipline. They all live together and If they get married, Paul might take more advantage of the kids. Some things they have done are eaten chocolate when they didn't ask, lied about throwing away meat, and made an english muffin when my dad told Caleb he could.

Answer 1

Sue needs help.  A boyfriend has NO BUSINESS handling discipline.  Men come and go.  What happens if it doesn't work out?  Sue needs to WOMAN UP and discipline her own kids! Even if they get married, she should be the MAIN disciplinarian for HER boys.

Answer 2

sue needs to be a mother she is and tell Paul to stop because they aren't his children and they are hers and she is to discipline the way she wants not his ways he is no one to those kids...kids are kids and they are little...they need fun...see Paul is acting lk this now and wait til they get married what if he hits them inappropriately thats a serious problem. A single mother who cares for her kids should put them first. and she can always find another man who will love her children not treat them as they commited a crime! just think and tell her things are going down hill and before she knows it her and her children can be in serious trouble