I have been with a persian guy for 8 years, I'm american, we have 3 kids together and I have one from before, we have been married for @ 6years. I want to divorce him, he's very emotionally abusive, he's very controlling, and doesn't treat my oldest son very well. I have never been allowed to work, or have friends, even help out at the school. I can't live like this anymore.... It's making me crazy! He says that if I divorce him, he will file bankruptcy and I will get nothing and he will take the kids, (he has never even watched them for me by himself) the kids are ages 11-2 and I'm completely stuck about what to do. I have virtually no family, and no friends that can help me. Do I suck it up so my kids live a comfortable life or do I leave and take a chance at them growing up somewhere not so nice, and having a mom who just works all the time. I really don't know what to do.
By emotional abuse I mean he calls me a w***e, and ***** constantly, tells me I'm fat, (I'm so NOT fat! Nobody even thinks I have kids much less 4) - there is some effed up s*x stuff too. There really is no reason for me to stay except my kids - I don't want to mess up their lives.
HELP!!????
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