What should I do I don't want to lose her?

Question

have been seeing this girl since the middle of May, I am 27 and she is 26 and has a 5 year old girl. When things started off it was hot and heavy for about 2 months. Recently things have fizzled out I got in trouble at work and her home was almost foreclosed on and the relationship has suffered greatly to the point where we don't hardly see each other which is not by my choice. We did have lunch last friday and laughed and joked while taking pics of each other with the our phones and even took a shower together. Yesterday she started a new job and I asked her if she wanted to go out to dinner to celebrate and she text-ed me back saying that she was sorry and that she was trying to figure some stuff out. I responded with ok I understand. When she got off she text-ed me saying she was on the way home and was going to see how her daughter felt and that she would call me. Of course she didn't call me and I eventually went to bed.

this morning i called and left her a message saying that she is the sweetest girl I have known I am very lucky and that I am here for her. She did call me back a little while ago and said your sweet but a liar. I guess what I am wondering is should I lay low for awhile and see what happens or is there something else I should try to do

Answer 1

Try telling her how you feel, not us.

Answer 2

well, it sounds like a movie i had seen........

anyways about the sweet but liar part........women always say that

i have said that loads of times..................

its when we think the guy is being too sweet............n no guy can be that honest..........

so when guys say things as this

like............u r the sweetest n all..........we do like it ...infact i love it...........but the rational part in me keeps tellin me...........'its a lie.........'

why i said its like a movie is..........ur line...."tryin to figure out some stuff"

may be shes upto upto something.........

but she doesnt want u in it...........so wait..........

n sayin u r a liar isnt serious.........

if u really do love her..............she will eventually realise:):):)

Answer 3

Maybe she just wants you to step up to the plate and offer to help her.And when a person have kids sometimes they get tied up with the kids and don't call a person back.I do it all the time.Are you back working or looking for a job.Ask her what is it that she would like you to do to get the relationship back on track.