What should I do? I have a crush on my “friend”. ?

Question

I’m willing to give it up if things don’t improve between the two of us. We’ve kissed and I feel he’s attracted to me to, but he’s pulling away and avoids answering any of my questions about “us”, so I don’t ask anymore at all. He’s a funny guy, he’s one who strives to do better and I really adore him but I feel like if he doesn’t let me know what’s going on, things will get worse. I know if one of us gets involved with someone else, the other will be hurt. What should I do?

Answer 1

Just tell him what you are telling us. You have feelings for him and you would be hurt if he got involved with someone else. If he brushes you off, or doesn’t say he feels the same way, then you have to assume he probably just likes you as a friend. You should find out as soon as you can, it will be tough maintaining a normal friendship if you have an unrequited crush on him.

Answer 2

I know exactly how you feel, and I just ignored it. I know it would be hard for some people though.

If you have some girlfriends to talk about him with, it helps.

good luck