What should I do? My parents are constantly yelling and threatening to disown me? I'm only 13, really scared?

Question

Suddenly today my parents are going ballistic...this isn't the first time since my mom has been throwing pencils and threatening to throw a chair at me once which I have no idea what to do.... can't wait till school starts. And my dad today was getting all worked up about me going to shopping with some of my friends....and I was using the money from my allowance and some birthday money my grandparents had given me. My parents are both really mad at me, saying that they're gonna dump me at a orphan if I go shopping or step out of the house with friends. I'm only 13, I get good grades, don't do anything and today my mom started telling my dad lies that I only love him for money which I never said...and now my mom and him just had a really scary fight.....about my mom's gonna suicide if my dad doesnt change but my mom is scarier she's like ignoring me now. So I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO DO!! Please help! My dad is really going to disown me I need help! Please...he's coming home in like 10 minutes.

Answer 1

i think you should go out with your friends but not to shop, go with them so you can tell them or at least the one you trust the most what's going on then go over to her house and tell her mom or dad and im betting they'll do something to help like call someone or at least go over to your house and scream at your parents. im really sorry i hope you're ok!!

Answer 2

Stay in your room, make sure you got a phone next to you. If they threaten to hurt you, call the cops. Don't make any eye contact with either of them till you're sure they're calm.

Answer 3

It seems to me that your mother is under a great deal of stress and that all the bad feelings seem to come from her. This does not say that she is a bad person but that you are going to have to have a low profile until you find out or she makes clear what the trouble really is.

Be polite. Give every sign that you intend to be a model daughter. Watch and listen and take note. I feel that somewhere the reason lies with your parents and how they are relating to each other. Your mother is using you as a scapegoat.

This will make life very hard for you. Whe you start school do not lose any opportunity to point out that you are doing well.Tell them that you are trying to make them proud of you.

  I feel very sorry for you, if your life is as you reported. I hope that I have been a help.

Answer 4

phone the nspcc, or phone a mates, and ask if you can come over there, and then you can tell their perants or something

You HAVE to tell someone!

Answer 5

girl you better get somewhere a lil safer than that...... it sounds like its THEM who are having marriage problems and its all lashing back on you, id go to a relative or a safe place, because things can get really ugly..... talk to a teacher at school or your principle or counselor.... your parents need help, your moms losing it, and im worried your dad may hurt you.....   the best thing to do is tell someone who can get the help your family needs to get back together

Answer 6

Just apologize for what ever you did, do WHATEVER they say and try not to do anything.

Answer 7

If I were you I would go with what Kiwi H said.  

Answer 8

Tell another ADULT!  Or call CPS (Child Protective Services) at once!  If you feel that frightened of physical or mental, emotional harm, then you need to ACT NOW.  Don't be afraid to take any neccessary step to ensure your saftey or well being.  Your parents' behaviour is NOT acceptable no matter what you've done (or not done) to anger them so. Perhaps going to a friend's house or trusted neighbours will help you decide what your best course of action should be.  Until then, be safe and ACT NOW!  Good luck sweetie xoxo

Answer 9

you have TERRIBLE parents, my parents would never do that go to the foster care or somthing or go live with u grandparents

Answer 10

apologize to them and crying would help too

say that you love them both VERY much unconditionally!

do whatever you can to please them and dont complain

Answer 11

WHOA ! child abuse ! call chilline or go to the police ! idk childline works if u live in uk i dont know for any other. good luck and i hope you find a solution but i know that that is unnacceptable and child abusive. im 13 also and my partents have NEVER said anything like that to me no matter what i have done they have never hit ,me or thrown stuff at me either. i feel sorry for you and i hope it works out, sorry i couldnt be much help :(  

Answer 12

What did YOU do to make your parents angry?  I know it is easy for kids to say that they didn't do anything.  They don't want to be guilty of doing anything wrong.  And bits of this sound over dramatised.  Sorry, kiddo, but I was 13 once...a long time ago.  I know how it was for me.  Parents use threats such as "I am going to disown you" or "I'm going to send you to the reform school" (this was a big threat when I was your age).

Answer 13

Maybe its for the best if you call up your grandparents and ask if you can come down with them.

Your parents wll be angry if you do this but you have to tell them that with school coming up, you can't live in such a bad environment.

That would be  very brave move.

You could also try writing both of your parents a nice letter telling them how you'e feeling and how their behavior is affecting you.

Good luck

--Annie

Answer 14

i am so sorry. u should try to apologize. i kno it may not work but on such short notice thats all i can come up with right now!

im so sorry! i hop eeverything works out.

ill pray for u!

Answer 15

If you need to try to get away from them as much as possible!?

Hang with other family members (aunts, uncles, grandparents, etc.)

Orr you could try to talk to them and ask whats wrong.

Good luck!!

Answer 16

talk 2 ur school couciler or a teacher and ask wat u should do not some ppl hidding behind yahoo acounts