What should I do? Please Help!!?

Question

Maybe like 5 weeks, my friend and I stop being friends. I really don't even know why, but this always happens..she just stops talking to me for a long time, but we eventually begin talking again. But this time is different, she moved me off of her top on myspace, and other things like that. When we usually stop talking, she never takes it that far. Every time we stop being friends, I am always the one to apologize, and I refuse to keep doing that especially when my friend never admits to being wrong. Any way, the real problem is I joined the marching band about 2 weeks later after our friendship was over, and I was just fine. But once I noticed that she really did not want to ever talk to me again, I lost my appetite. Some days I would eat dinner just fine and other days I have to force myself to eat. I do not eat breakfast or lunch anymore, but I do eat dinner just because I know I need to eat something. I am just not hungry anymore, and I have a hard time finishing my food. Do you think my appetite is gone because I am working hard at and practice or because of my 'friend'? I need advice, thanks.

Just in case you wanna know...she's a taurus, and I am a Scorpio.

Once again thanks.

Answer 1

hey cool i'm a scorpio to anyways sounds to me you need closer first talk to her ask her whats up why she one moment talks then leaves you alone don't apologize while asking why unless she said you did somthing horrible to her then after talking with her then you deside if you still want to try to be friends or not as for apitite its proubley just stress

Answer 2

Omg this same thing happened to me. Yes I think your not eating becasue your friend. I think you should meet knew people or do something exciting to get your mind off your old friend. Tauruses can be a real pain. Trust me. Honey I'm sorry your going through this. Good luck to you. ( :  

Answer 3

Well your friend is very confusing but the loosing appetite part is something normal when it comes to stress , it sounds like his girl is someone you wish was more than JUST a friend. Maybe you should just talk to her and ask you know what is the problem please just tell me so that I can know what the problem is and try to fix it

thanks :D

Answer 4

well yah for the band, lolm but with your appetite it could be feelings of your friend, i know when things like this happen to me i dont feel like eating, it kinda feels like id be a lil sick if i ate right then, but just tell yourself it'll be ok and yall are good friends then this will work out int he long run, maybe your friend is just going through a hard time now and is reaching out for attention. just be there the best you can

Answer 5

she doesnt deserve to be your friend. find a new friend from the band.