What should I do???? URGENT!?

Question

Ok, my 2 best friends have gone to Sydney for a school vacation. My other 2 friends I hang around with we arn't as close and we have very different outlooks. Today in class when I was on the computer, one of my friends kept coming up and pulling my hair, pulling my hair out of my pony tail and stealing my bag. She also was making jokes like "We dont want you to be in our "group" anymore". I was annoyed so i was hanging around other people today, then at Lunch I walked past them and the same one called out my name and I walked over and she goes "What are you doing Ella I was talking to the other Ella" and so i said Ok and walked away even though there is no other Ella in the school. And she was REAALY annoying me and my friends dont come back from Sydney for another week so I dont know how Im going to get through. What should I do?

Answer 1

Find some decent friends.

The whole hair pulling and bag stealing can be classed as bullying, so maybe tell a teacher.

Just find some one who you can hang around with until your friends get back.

Answer 2

I know what you mean. I had a classmate last year who did things to me like that. Just ignore her. If you had enough, and you call a teacher and tell on them, they might get back at you by some dirty trick. Just completely ignore them. Tell them if their no feeling well, they better get going out of school. People like her need to be told a lesson. Try telling a classmate of yours your problem. She or he might help you.

When your friends come back, tell your friends. I'm sure you can figure something out. Good luck!  

Answer 3

what a *****.

wtf is her problem?! ugh. im facing the exact (well, minus the friends in sydney part) thing and its pissing me off. but heres wat i have 2 say. SHOW NO FEAR. i kno wat they say hurts. and if ur like me, some one who lets lotsa things slide, they'll just come back again.

first, call ur besties and talk about it. i kno it mite b a little embarrassing to for them 2 kno ur being bullied, but if they're true friends thye'll always b there 4 u. :] then, LET IT RIPP. make fun of the b*****s. talk c**p about them. trust me, it helps u feel tons bttr, and plus it gets it off ur bck. bsides, she mite b able 2 give u some advice. :]

if that ***** comes up 2 u again and takes anything else or is just flat out bitchy, tell her to stop. look her in the eye. show no fear. tell her to stop again. make sure she knos ur serious. this stuff isnt funny, evn if all her little friends seem to think so. im guessing ur in h.s. huh? by this time, she'd most likely turn to her sidekicks and laff. step in front of her and tell her to stop, seriously.

if that doesnt work, which probly wont, xD, get ppl 2 go on ur side. tell them wat a ***** she is. most likely, they wont think ur weak that ur getting picked on. usually this is how their reactions are: WAT a *****. xD get ppl on ur side. that way whn the b*****s do another ambush on u, b sure 2 have some of those newly pissed friends by ur side. mwahaha. xD POWER IN NUMBERRSS!! lol most likely they wouldnt pick on u, but if they do, usually one of those ppl would stand up 4 u, and once one does, another one usually stands up too, then a third, then a fourth. b sure 2 make lotsa friends. and be sure to stand up 4 urself 2. dont b a wimp and let everyone else do the workk. :]

love,

amy

Answer 4

Just ignore them. Let them do whatever they want, u still keep smiling. I know this is really tough, but if u can do it, they will feel that they didnt succeed in irritating u, and will ultimately be angry with themselves. if u tell a teacher, they may get more angry and start teasing u more.  

Answer 5

I'm not sure you'd want to go to your teacher about the "bullying" that may cause more trouble than it's worth.

Find something to do, maybe plan a party for your friends for when they get back home?

Answer 6

I HATE PEOPLE LIKE THIS i know my view won't be popular how old are you only this kind of thing seems very childish so i'm guessing under 13 ,well i just front her out like when she dose it agin just walk straight up to her and say "what's your problem" ? keep pulling my hair and being mean see what she has to say if shes starts getting mouthy back get in her face and tell her you don't like it or her and if she don't leave off just head butt her .....i know this is not the proper thing to do but i was bullied bad at school, the only way they understand is if you stand up to them shown no fear and be firm once she knows you won't stand for bring made a scapegoat she'll leave off and go pick on someone who dose nothing