What should I do? What would you do? Advice please!

Question

Ok so i realy like a friend of mine and the other night i told him how i feel cos i was pretty sure its a mutual thing. I told him and he was like im a jerk. so naturally i asked why and he told me he's a jerk cos he likes me a lot too but also likes another one of his friends who he has known longer. So im now confused and am wondering what to do.

Answer 1

I dont rly have much to help u..

but I could try cheer u up..thats why u DONT need a man :p...

This Is Why Women Should Not Take Men Shopping Against Their Will.:

After Mr. and Mrs. Fenton retired, Mrs. Fenton insisted her husband accompany her on her trips to Wal-Mart. Unfortunately, Mr. Fenton was like most men; he found shopping boring and preferred to get in and get out. Equally unfortunately, Mrs. Fenton was like most women; she loved to browse.

One day Mrs. Fenton received the following letter from her local Wal-Mart :

Dear Mrs. Fenton,

Over the past six months, your husband has been causing quite a commotion in our store. We cannot tolerate this behavior and may be forced to ban both of you from the store. Our complaints against Mr. Fenton are listed below and are documented by our video surveillance cameras.

June 15: Took 24 boxes of pregnancy tests and randomly put them in people's carts when they weren't looking.

July 2: Set all the alarm clocks in Housewares to go off at 5-minute intervals.

July 7: Made a trail of tomato juice on the floor leading to the women's restroom.

July 19: Walked up to an employee and told her in an official sounding voice, "Code 3 in Housewares. Get on it right way."

August 4: Went to the Service Desk and tried to put a bag of M&Ms on layaway.

September 14: Moved a "CAUTION - WET FLOOR" sign to a carpeted area.

September 15: Set up a tent in the camping department and told other shoppers he'd invite them in if they would bring pillows and blankets from the bedding department.

September 23: When a clerk asked if they could help him he began crying and screamed, "Why can't you people just leave me alone?"

October 4: Looked right into the security camera and used it as a mirror while he picked his nose.

November 10: While carelessly handling guns in the hunting department, he asked the clerk where the antidepressants were.

December 3: Darted around the store suspiciously while loudly humming the " Mission Impossible" theme.

December 6: In the auto department, he practiced his "Madonna look" by using different sizes of funnels.

December 18: Hid in a clothing rack and when people browsed through, yelled "PICK ME! PICK ME!"

December 21: When an announcement came over the loud speaker, he assumed a fetal position and screamed "OH NO! IT'S THOSE VOICES AGAIN!"

And last, but not least ..

December 23: Went into a fitting room, shut the door, waited awhile, then yelled very loudly, "Hey! There's no toilet paper in here!"

Regards,

Wal-Mart

Patti Barber, Office Supervisor - Accounting Unit, Behavioral Health Services

Answer 2

Oh hunny.

i went through that his name is JEESE.

the little g*y tard that he is.

If i were you, dont tell him that it woulnt bother you if he didnt choose you.

thats what i did... biggest mistake and i ask myself if i told him something else would i be with him?

just come out adn say i really like you, and go with ur gutt.

but if it ends up not you try and still be friends again and talk to him as much as u can.. cause now its all akward between me and jesse and we dont talkk or text... and it sucks.. soo beware.

Cause i can relate.....sadly

Good Luck =] ♥

Answer 3

Let him think about what he really wants, dont pester him or anything. Just leave him alone (without seeming hostile) and let him think.