What should I do about......... Please help!!!!?

Question

Well last year this girl Narda (yeah Narda) and this boy Hugo started rumors about me. it all started when I acused him and his friends from touching themselfs in class and making "noises" (gross I don´t want to see or heare that!!) Well they got angry, I mean ANGRY like enough to HIT me and my stuff. I told me so called friend Narda and she agread I had done the right thing but when we went back in class she turned against me and said EVERYTHING we talked about was a lie just so they wouldn´t get mas at her. So a week went by and I didn´t talk to theme but HUgo made me feel guilty so I apologized on msn with him but he wouldn´t acceptso I sure as h**l wasn´t gonig to beg so I left it at that. So one day I got invited to a party (a kid with 0 friends) so I went and he was there with her and his GROSS friends. I left the party like 4 hours later and whene I got home he was logged on and sarted to talk. I thught he wanted to be friends but he started say things like; Oh nobody even noticed you at the party and thing so i ignored him but then he started to call me a bit*h and a sl*t so I said "You as* I don´t give a sh** about you and you´re friends (the guys that touch their *****)" and left. The next day I found out he had printed the conversation BUT just SOME parts and he made it seem as if I had said that I di´dn´t care about any of my classmates and Narda who is supposed to be my friend BELIVED HIM. I noticed she was mad but when I asked why she said "no I promised him I wouldn´t tell you, but it´s something really really aufull (what!!!!!!! How am I supposed to know "what I did wrong if she doesn´t say" but i imagined what he had done and found out through other people.

Well that was at the end of the year and know I´m afraid they´ll make everyone belive them again and make my life h**l (I mean last year they didn´t know but they really made my life HARD) well they´re like the popular ones iin the school (they´re not a couple but she´s the girl who isn´t afraid to... show too much if you know what i mean (she´s kissed every boy in the school) and he totally likes her and he´ll do anything for her that´s the only reason this happend (Narda and I don´t really get along she doesn´t like the fact that the new girl got better grades than her for example I´m in mexico but i lived 10 years in USA so my English is better etc.. so she HATES me). She makes herself seem really inoccent and nice but she isn´t (you know the typ)

But anyways, I´m scared they will try to make it hard on me again and i don´t know what to do?!?! was it the right thing telling the teacher they were touching their privates (I know it feels "good"v to them but they need to do that in privte)?! and last but not least how do I make people know what really happendor at least make friends (I´m really shy)?!?!

Pleeeeeeeeeeeease help me I don´t know what to do I´m so shy and I´m not a social person (I don´t like to be a mess in class there are other places to have a good time but aperantly you do to be cool) I prefer to read instead of flirting/kissing with boys. I´m a really nice person thou once you get to know me and I just need that chance from my classmates. Thanks for healping and please be explicite.

P.S I´m 13 almost 14 and so are they (but she sure doesn´t act like it.)

P.P.S Oh and if you can please answer one of my other questions about a crush i have =P thanks!!

(I already askedthis question but didn´t get a lot of answers and sorry its so long).

Answer 1

....concentrate on your studies more,  and forget them.

Answer 2

It sounds like that girl wasn't a very good friend. I know it is hard having people dislike you and saying stuff but really who cares what they think. They seem like the type that aren't worried about some of the most important things. it sounds like you are smart and are taking the right path don't worry about them. There not worth it. Try to make new friends those are not the type of friends you want.

I hope everything works out for you.

Answer 3

this is a really sad story. the same thing happened to me a few years ago but things worked out for the better. you can't let them get to you or let it show that you are upset or mad that they did something to you. it only gives them the pleasure of knowing they got to you. its gross they were touching their privates but u dont need to tell the teacher about it. its not worth it because they will probably keep doing it anyway.

to make friends, act like nothing is bothering you and nothing happened and things will eventually blow over. until then dont give up hope. also get involved in clubs and other activities to make friends. i did and it worked great.  also dont be afraid to say what you feel but also think before you say something mean to somebody. be extra nice and everybody will be ur friend because you are nice to them.

im shy and love to read too but i have made a lot of friends since the bad incident and like i said everything will work out. good luck :)

Answer 4

this is obviously really hard for you but its obviously a little hard for me to tell you wat to do because im not actually there and don't know the situation but i think you should tell narda (the nerd)((sorry had to)) and hugo to stop acting like stuck up nerds i really like really feel for you babe!!! I i dont understand why people have to be so mean all the time to other people i love the way you told your teacher but its ovbviously hard to tel your parental guardians becausse it startd off like really weird with the boys (hugo and co)