What should I do about my dating situation?

Question

Ok, this is gonna be a long question, but here it goes.

At camp I have this reputation as a stud. It's pretty ironic because it's a close minded Conservative Christian camp. I flirted with this one girl, Angelika all summer, but I didn't even like her, I just flirted with her to p**s of her brother cause it's really funny to see him pissed. Then I met this guy named Jason. I worked with him when I was a counselor and we came out to each other and we fell in love. We are a match made in heaven, but the thing is he's 17. He's all like I'll wait for you and we'll move to Boston and get married, and la la la... I really like him too, but I feel like I'm chained to him until we start dating. I really like him, but there are other people too. The next girl is named Grace. She's super cute. I met her the week Jason was gone, and I fell in love with her. The next week Jason was still gone, and I seemed to have gotten over her. I wanted to talk to her when we all went to the pool, and my friends Sam and Chris told her I liked her, which was at the time untrue. We didn't see each other anymore because she was in Broadway Camp and I was in Teen Camp, so I couldn't apologize for my friends' behavior. The next day two of the Broadway Camp people came to me and asked me to jump from Teen camp to Broadway camp cause they needed a boy. I accepted right away and... (this part has nothing to do with the story) ... Grace was really funny and nice at the rehersals and I fell in love with her again. The last week of camp was the most complicated. I was working with Jason again and Grace was in Teen Camp. Everybody went to the pool on Friday and one of my campers was repeating innapropriate stuff he heard from Teen Camp. He said that Sam was saying it all, but I went to my friend Jas and it turns out Grace was saying it all. I realized Grace was a ***** and had no class, while at the same time was funny and charming. I saw a lot of myself in her, and a lot of myself in Jason. Jason started getting romantic, but it was old news for me. I still like both of them a lot. I know I probably won't be able to get Grace, but if I do it'll break Jason's heart. But I'm getting real tired of the "we're soulmates" stuff from Jason. I have no clue what to do.

What should I do?

Answer 1

Your really rather fickle aren't you?

It can't be love because you seem to change your feelings at the drop of a hat.

From the little information we gained Jason seems to be the best bet, although i anticipate by the end of the week you will have found twelve others love.

Answer 2

it sounds like you seem to be falling in love to much...... maybe its LUST not LOVE

Answer 3

Wow. I think that you to step back and stop taking things so seriously. I think that if you are truly in love with someone, you can't totally forget about them and fall in love with someone else a week later. For now, I think you should stick to just getting to know these people and then you can see who you are really interested in. Theres a huge difference between temporary infatuation and love, and for now I suggest that you date these people, see who is right for you. Don't plan marriage so soon dude. Who ever knew that conservative christian camp is just the place to find "love", even if it is with someone of your own gender. I find that kind of ironic.  

Answer 4

Dude..Close ur eyes and listen to your heart..You are the best judge of this situation

Answer 5

write shorter questions for one.... And if you are trying to decide on which you want to be with. look at both and write down their goods and bads. whoever has the least bads or the most goods is a good chance of you liking more

Answer 6

the answer is nothing find yourself and what u truly want and when u do ull realize what u have with both of them is superficial and just a fling ...... i say this because one is to hung on u and u dont like it the other is out of ur league and is as u said a @#%$*. so clear ur head have fun with what u can. ur still young and have time to decide on love later dont tie ur self down with one person till ur ready and uv done what uv wanted to do  

Answer 7

um slow down, your young, this was just summer camp, will you even be meeting this people when its done, or do they live far apart from you?