What should I do about my daughter?

Question

My daughter told me if anyone ever txts when im not home, just read it and tell them im not there.

So one day my daughter wasn’t home and her phone went off so I read the txt message and it was her bf saying “Hey babe you have to show me your C**t piercing tonight and well see if it makes any difference with you know what :P ”.

I was horrified as my daughter says she doesn’t believe in s*x before marriage and also the fact that she got their pierced.

She does have facial piercings though.

And also the fact she’s doing that kind of thing with her boyfriend who is well emo.

What should I do?

Answer 1

how old is she?

Answer 2

hahaha

Did you text him back that she wasn't here right now?

Answer 3

sounds like a bad boy. get rid of him.

Answer 4

It may sound weird,but I think that's her way of letting you know what's going on in her life, I don't think she would give you permission to look at personal things, it's time to have a talk with your daughter, I would be honest tell her what you read, and see what she says...

Answer 5

well how old is she? if she is getting the peircing without your permission then she must be 18+. If she is 18 or older then there is not much you could say about her s*x life except you are disappointed. If she lives with you and doesnt pay bills or rent then tell her that she is old enough to make her own decisions and life changing ones at that, then she is old enough to start paying bills or rent

if she is younger then you should really talk with her and disipline her all you want! GOod luck!!

15!! and has that peirced! WOW.....that is also very young to be having s*x. Intervention time......get her on the pill ASAP

Answer 6

well if he said maybe it will make a difference that probably means she hasn't done it yet .

Answer 7

when teens say they r not havin s*x they r lying most of the time the best thing is u know now,  i dont believe u when u say she said to look at her phone.  teens are very private people and especially if they r having sexual relations as well.  u were snooping and snoopers never get good news.  anyways she is sexually active all u can do is call her on it make her admit it and get her a patch because u can see if she is wearing it instead of worring if she is taking the pill.  dont give her a chioce take her to a clinic and have then perscribe it even if she lies and says she dosent need it.  and mom WAKE UP this is 2008 girls dont behave like its 1960 any more. good luck