What should I do about my girlfreinds parents breaking us up?

Question

My ex girlfriends parents used to love me, we got along great and then my ex and I broke up. After a while we got back together and they were extremely unsuportive. Once they could see we were getting serious again they apparently gave her a huge lecture about starting school (college) and how us being together could jepordize everything and if her dad found out I was visiting her he would cut her off! She is a goody goody daddy's girl which is what I love about her but in the end she decided she didn't want to risk her families support. We broke up in the first place for no big reason, it wasnt serious, and now I am furious and confused about what to do. help me! P.S. Im leaving to the navy in a couple of months and shes soing to college but a wanto make it work, who says thats not possible?!

Answer 1

be by her side she needs a good friend to help her get through this miss.

Answer 2

let them know that you REALLY care for her and if shes going to college she should be like what? 18? so if SHE wants 2 make it work then convince her to talk to her parents and let them know how she really feels about you. hope it works out! =]

Answer 3

Try explaining to her parents that it was a mistake you too broke up in the first place but you discovered that you really love their daughter. Be very nice to her parents... and possibly supportive of there final decision? It will show them that you are a very considerate guy and they might let you and her go back out. Whatever happens, good luck!

Answer 4

The relationship could definitely work. Anything can work long distance, if both people are committed.

Why don't you find out why her parents have an issue with you? Try talking to her parents and listening to their concerns. That may help them see how much you care about her and how committed you are.

You also need to talk to your ex about your feelings. Tell her that you want to be with her and make it work.

Unfortunately, the desicion is up to her. If she really wants to be with you, she will, regardless of what her parents say or think.