My almost 12 year old stepdaughter is very greedy. If she goes out with me on a trip, I usually buy her something. On those same trips, I pick up something for her brothers since she got something. Once we get home, she demands her brothers share their treats with her because according to her, it's not fair they get to have treats and she doesn't. She has to be reminded that she received her treat while we were out. When it's time for desert (a rarity due to picky eating issues with the kids), if she's given free reign, she'll take more than her share of ice cream. My father sent me some things recently and I gave her older brother one of the blankets that were sent and her some of my old clothes. She was livid that he got a blanket until she was reminded that she received some new clothes. She was the one who decided which article of clothing she wanted to keep! Her older brothers are at the cabin this week with their father and I have her. We went on a shopping trip this past Monday before her father left for the cabin. I bought her capri-pants from a trendy store, a new tank top, new sandals, McDonald's food, an ice cream, and some fancy water. Upon arriving home, she asked her father for money for ice cream. He said no because he knew that she already had some things bought for her. I bought her brothers sandals and a couple tank tops for their trip. I bought my infant a new toy. As I was buying the toy for my son, she told me that I spend too much money on him. This whole week, she's been able to do what she wants, watch what she wants, and I gave her a name brand bag that I don't use anymore. She kept asking me about it the entire week when I mentioned she could *probably* have it. Then she had the nerve to ask for one of my belts for her new pants. I told her no. So I enabled her a bit with the bag. Now I'm not sure what to do about her greediness because her father has spoken to her and we can't get her mother to communicate with us what, if any, actions she's taken. She gets excited about what she gets for a few minutes to a day but then she's back to being ungrateful. She also uses my things without asking and having a talk with her is useless. She feels so entitled to everything. I also don't feel I should have to hide my things in my own home. So what would you do in my situation other than stop buying her things?
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