What should I do about my hubby?

Question

Ok, he has a bad habit of telling people EVERYTHING about me...personal info, finances , and other things that should not be said about us/me. About a week ago, I told him to stop it! Today, I found out he is doing it AGAIN!!! Im so hurt and feel betrayed by her mouth!!!! What should I do!? (note - I already talked to him about it but he is still doing it!!!!!!)

Answer 1

maybe trying the same thing  to him, so he sees how it feels.

Answer 2

You must be messing up if he is talking about finances stop messing up and there's nothing to talk about.

Answer 3

I don't think he understands how you feel. I think since you've already talked about it, then he needs to KNOW how you feel. I think next time you have a friend over, say something very personal that you wouldn't think he'd want people to know right in front of him and see how he feels about it. I'm sure he wouldn't be happy having his business out there and would get a chance to experience how you felt. After that, I think he'll learn that some boundaries shouldn't be crossed.

Good luck.

Answer 4

this would seriously anger me. its noone elses business. id probably leave him im afraid.

Answer 5

Guys like that RARELY stop.  

He really sees nothing wrong with it, how sad.

How does it feel to be thrown under the bus every day by your own husband?

Answer 6

Just tell him to cut the c**p out or you will start telling people EVERYTHING about him.

Answer 7

You need to have some sort of punishment if he does it.  I am not talking about a child or something but it is hurting you and you need to withhold something from him as well so he can see that it hurts you.  Don't do it forever, just get the point across.  

Answer 8

umm.. people have annoyin habits.. ur bf needs to learn not too..and u need to learn to get a d**n backbone.. lol.. tell him how it hurts u.. an if he loves u in anyway.. he wouldnt wanna hurt u now would he.. lol

Answer 9

Go to marriage counseling, he needs some help but will probably need you to drag him along (make it a group effort) so he doesn't feel that you are blaming him for everything as he might dig in his heels and refuse.

He has some emotional problems. Usually people that have the urge to disclose everything about themselves and those they know well do it because they feel its the only way they can capture an audience.  He needs to learn how to have boundaries and not be so insecure around people.  He's trying to socialize but obviously he's making himself look like a chump.  

He needs to learn the art of being a good conversationalist while at the same time keeping his private information private. I'm sure he probably doesn't want to do it. he just can't resist. If I had to guess I'd say he's probably anxious socially and falls back on what he knows best. He fears no one will hang around him unless he's got juicy stories to tell.  

People are probably tired of listening and uncomfortable about it as well, which is why it gets back to you. Get him into counseling pronto to stop this unwanted verbal stripping of your private lives before you both get really hurt.

Answer 10

You are going to have to cool off about him being so open about your personal life.  Otherwise, you will end your marriage.  

Answer 11

Sit him down and tell how this hurts you.  Tell him if you wanted everyone to know your personal business you would call the local news station.  Tell him how harmful it is, that you cannot become closer to him, because you can't trust him.  You relationship may be jeopardized by his betrayal, and does he really want that??

Answer 12

you need to communicate better and explain that what he is doing is hurtful..... seriously why can't  u put your foot down and tell him that your not going to deal with a blabber mouth husband

Answer 13

wake him out dude, you need to sit down with him and dont be scared to screammmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm  

Answer 14

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Answer 15

Stop sharing things with him. Until he proves he can keep your secrets a secret, do not tell him anything. He will get the hint.