Me and my hubby have been married for almost a year. We got married two months into my pregnancy. We used to party, drink, and smoke pot allot before I got pregnant. Then after I got pregnant I stopped all that stuff, but he kept doing it. I moved into his parents house with him. BTW I was only 18, and he 20. Anyway, He used to work and I used to sit at home all the time doing nothing, but wait for him to return back home. When he would return home, he would stay with me for 30 min. and then leave with his buddies. He would come home around 12 every night all drunk or high. All I would do is get mad and argue with him every day, but not at first though, like 2 or 3 months into our marriage. Then we would start arguing not only because of that, but every other reason. We still made up our differences cause by the end of the day we loved each other very much. He's not only bad person. He'd give me everything I want or need, and cared for me, and treated me very good, when he was at home. so I figured out that I shouldn't leave him and wait out to see if he's going to change his ways. He's not a cheater or anything so keep that in mind. I know that 4sure!!! So now that we had our baby he still does the same things. Not around the baby but whenever he can. He'd ask me every night if he can go out with his friends and I say no, he still does it. eventually I got so tired of it, so I moved back to my parents house. He's perfectly fine with it, even likes it more because there's no bitchy wife and no crying baby, only when he wants. That's NO FAMILY!!! What should I do? Should I leave him or stay? Or try to change him? Or is it my faut? Please Help! What should I do. But keep in mind that I'm 19 now and have his kid and depend on him!
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