What should I do about my non parenting daughter's father?

Question

He sees her once a month if that but he honestly thinks he's being a good father.

Answer 1

I have found that sometimes it's easier to wright things down and give it to the other person so that they really understand everything your trying to say. And (I'm not justifing)  but sometimes men don't really think they just do and don't realize everything that they are/aren't doing.

Answer 2

Are you letting him see her more? He is being a good parents by not making a run for it.

Maybe do a custody agreement.

Answer 3

Maybe he IS being a good father by staying away?

Many newly divorced couples have animosity for a while, perhaps he needs to keep his distance from you.  Perhaps he would be open to having a neutral third party do pick up and drop off so there is no contact between the two of you?

Answer 4

HA DONT THEY ALL..

SAME WIT  MY BABYS DADDY..

***** ***

Answer 5

my 6 kids have the best deadbeat dad ..he never visits ..doesnt even remember their ages or birthdays

Answer 6

Yep know what you mean but nothing you can do.  Just try encouraging him to be a better father and make sure you don't bad mouth him around his daughter.  My ex is like that too, he will tell people about the kids and act like he is a great father but he sees the boys right now once every few months and lost rights to two of his kids with someone else.  They just are clueless I guess to the fact that being a good parent means actually being there for you kids when they need you not just when it is convenient for them.