I have a problem about this old friend. Well me and her became friends in 7th grade and we had the same classes and periods. We had so many things in common and she was like my best friend the whole year. I think I became really attached to her though. In 8th grade, I had no classes with her and I could only talk to her on the phone, on instant message, and on this game I play with her. Everything was going well throughout the school year until it came to april. Me and her were talking and then she just logged off of msn. Soo I went on my game and she suddenly comes on and I asked why she logged off of msn. She had no answer ...... sooo I asked about her writing test scores on this test and she still didn't answer. I thought she was ignoring me soooo I just said this randomly out to my other online buddies "She's being an idiot." Annnnd she finally answered and then all of a sudden we get into this argument and she deletes me off her buddy list. I tried apologizing to her the next day, but she just told me to leave her alone, and I think I went a little bit overboard and I called her a piece of **** ... I felt really bad about it ... I didn't mean to. I was just angry. When I was talking to my guy friend this one day, he said he was talking to her and trying to get her to forgive me. But all she said was that I was gonna live in h**l. Then after a while .... she said she didn't want to be my friend anymore. She's the kind of person that you can't find everyday that has almost the same common things as me sooo I felt kind of down. The last thing she said to me was, "Have a good life." It took me a little while to get over, but my guy friend helped me to get over it. Sooo I deleted her from my list, threw away anything she gave me, and moved along with life. I go into high school and I don't have any classes with her. I made a few new friends too. One day, I got my schedule changed ... like I only got one class changed (my math one). And I go in it with my new friend I made and everything's good. The next day, I go into my math class annnnd I hear a voice saying, "I got switched to this class" and it turns out that it's her. She sits right behind my new friend that I made (She's friends with my new friend) annnd I hear her voice in the background whenever I do my classwork. I'm just so pissed off that's she in my class and that for once, I'm trying to get over it. This one time she asked for my help on the work annnd if I can't help her, she just ignores me and talks to my new friend the whole time about how she got her schedule changed and asking her for help whatsoever. .... I can't help it though..... whenever I try to show my work to her and explain how to do it, my hand is always shivering (Maybe it's kind of cold in the classroom)... and I feel like she's trying to take away my new friend I just made. I regret trying to get my classes changed and I don't want to get it changed again. And now that she's in my class now, all I can think about is her being in my class. Sometimes I regret getting into that argument with her .... and then I get angry cause she just won't accept my apology. Sooo any advice guys?
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