What should I do about my parents not believing me?

Question

The other day my parents went out and I decided to call my boyfriend and to invite him over, I know I'm not allowed to have guests over but we haven't seen each other for a while since I'm grounded. Anyway, we were in my room and we were just listening to music but when my mom walked in we were kissing and she got mad then embarrassed me by screaming at him to get out. I've told both of my parents over and over again that NOTHING happened but they assumed I invited him over for the sole purpose of having s*x although we weren't doing anything. They think something was going to happen but I knew it wasn't but now I'm grounded for even longer! It's so unfair because no matter what I say they won 't believe me what am I going to do?

Answer 1

Give them time to think it over, and then apologize again.  

Answer 2

You are missing the point. They are madder at the fact you were grounded and chose to ignore that and do what you wanted. How did you think they were going to react-jump up and down and say they were thrilled you disobeyed their wishes and on top of that were making out with your boyfriend in your room. You need to understand that dealing with parents is a give and take thing. If you show you respect them and are not totally into yourself then they will respect you more and give you more freedom. You need to talk to them and then show them you can be trusted again. Hope this helps.