What should I do about my stepsister?

Question

My step-sister, Caitlin, has been staying the night for two days. She basicaly invited herself over and on the other night my mom insisted' she stay another night.

(Caitlin is 3 years younger than me; she's 13)

But she has been a pain in my rum -___- and I dont know what to do

She yells at the top of her lungs, even though I live in an apartment and my neighbor just had a baby. Most the time it's curse words. She curse's like a sailor, saying them at random. Even to insult me. I asked her to stop several times, but she just doesnt listen to me, even when I hit her (not hard) she thinks it's fun

She's been kicking my dog and screams in it's face, cause she thinks it's funny! (My dog is now scarred and has a tummy ache) I try stopping her though,but she just wont stop!

She also has been on myspace and on the phone with boys since she's been here, I think thats the only reason she came over her for. Cause she was grounded at her mom's on it.

She's been acting like a total idiot....

She doesnt even pick up her mess, she's a slob, and my mom is stict with the house being 'clean'.I've been having to clean after her, her dirty dishes and everything....she just lays everything all over the floor.

What should I do, if noting I try works. I asked her to stop several times, even used force (nothing serious though, just a simple smack)we just moved in a month ago 2 I dont want to upset the neighbors with her yelling

Any advice? or anything?

Answer 1

arghhh....... that only by reading wat u wrote above and u have to live with her. seriuosly u have to teach her how to respect ppl and also animals. why don't u talked straight to her mom. tell her mom how she behaves when she's at ur place. if tat doesn't work, then on her next visit, when she acts up, pull her into the room and beat the **** out of her and ask her not to act up in ur house. as for your poor poor doggie, pls comfort it and shower it with lots of luv and make the dog feel better. as for caitlin, u better take control and be in charge and u can do tat by start treating her like how cinderalla's step sister's treated her. sori for giving all tis bad ideas but girl never take **** from anyone cos if u do it once, u'll always do it. show her who's the boss  

Answer 2

Sorry i can't give you an exact answer.

How about talking with her, doing something together?

Such as... Hair / drawing / on the internet.

Whist your with her say gently, so my mom has let you stay for a few days.

Why do you treat our home like a dump?

If you do not change you will not be welcome here.

If you are not welcome here or at home then where will you go?

*She sounds like a spoilt, arrogant annoying git, i know if such a person was in my home i would demand they abide ot the rules otherwise they are sent packing.*

If its 3am in the morning put her to bed if she gets up again.

Just ignore her.

She sounds like a child, so everything she does is for a reaction from you.

The stronger the reaction the more she will do it, such as the dog.

( Poor dog, i feel for it )

Then of course you could phone your mom and say that this 13 year old is out of control, i wouldn't recommend hitting her, that gives a bad imppression as when she is older she will think that hitting people is acceptable.

Hope these words aide you in some way!

Don't worry you don't have to deal with all these problems on your own.

Also she's young but she should know by now that actions have consequences.

(*Oh why not phone her mom up and ask for some assistance? *)

Answer 3

Tell her that shes staying at your house and it's not her house for her to do what ever it is that she wants!!!

Answer 4

i understand!i think all u can do is ignore her!go in ur room and take ur belongs(anything she will try to mess up)and get ur dog tell ur mom nicely that she is a slob and doesnt pick up after her self and even thugh she is a guets tell her she is hitting ur dog and cursing really bad!i hopei helped!and good luck

God bless

Answer 5

Go round to your neighbour and apologise for you step sister say she's got Tourettes Syndrome ( look it up you will get away with it) and then tell your mum how unhappy this is and you feel they have been unfair to you or you could just copy your step sister with her mess but if you don't feel you could leave a mess behind just tidy her stuff straight to the bin- its on the floor it must be rubbish that's what I tell me own kids now they hardly leave anything on the floor.

As for the dog tell your parents about the animal cruelty and tell them if they don't do something you will be reporting her to the RSPCA. I am sure they would do something then.