What should I do about this? Please help???

Question

I like this girl. I really really really like her. A few days ago we talked on line about stuff you know. But it got kinda deep. I like to keep my personal emotions inside because I don't want it to get into the way. I had some issues from way back...anyway we just got to talking & within like 20 minutes she just sat there {not even in the same room} and read me like a book. I feel intimidated but its weird because I also feel...safe. I trust her. But I never had anyone do that before. What should I do? What do you think? I really really really like her...we have so much in common...but how did she do that? How did she just pick up on it so easy? Anyone else I would have to explain everything, she just...put it all on the table. Is she some kind of mind reader???

Answer 1

I doubt she is a mind reader.. she can ''read between the lines'' . it's a lot easier to understand what someone says in writing.. you can read it again and you don't miss out anything.. in a conversation if your mind is diverted for a few seconds you may miss important information.. I believe a lot of girls and women can read between the lines.. me too, and I am not a mind reader. it's just that if one pays attention to what someone writes.. then sometimes even the bits that the person omits tell what he thinks.. So she knows you now. Did she say she doesn't want to talk to you anymore? If she continued to talk to you in a normal way and will talk to you again.. then I don't see a problem. Girls prefer honesty.. She knows you as a person now, that's not a bad thing.. if she likes you she will go on talking to you and you should ask things about her as well the next time she talks to you .. if you are interested in her.. then maybe you can read between the lines what she really thinks.. you had your chance to talk a lot this time, if you like her, show her that you are interested and ask her something about her...so that you get to know her better..I am sure she didn't just disappear and never said she wouldn't talk to you again so next time you talk to her behave the same as you did this time.. now that she knows so much about you it would make no sense at all to feel ashamed for having openend up to her.. remain open with her..x*x

Answer 2

Some people are observant and pick up on things.  Or she has a background simular to yours and can relate to you.  Ask her questions about her back ground and tell her that you feel that you can really talk to her because she seems to know what it's like.