What should I do about this crush?

Question

I'm 14 and obsessed with my soccer coach who is 32 years of age...he offers me so much love and encouragement when I play and I really trust him. Only problem is I really fancy him too, as he is good looking. He is also into all the things I'm into besides the soccer such as motorcycles and country music. We have such a bond and he really cares for me too. I've not been in contact with my biological dad for about 5 years. He really let me down and physically hurt me. I think maybe this soccer coach crush is the result of my feelings of wanting a father figure? Please help.

Answer 1

i wouldn't encourage u to lead this man on in any sexual way..u could speak to him about whatever issues u have but that's it...bcuz u dont want anythin u wouldnt want to happen...so keep that crush a secret will you

Answer 2

It could be that you are lacking a father figure, like you said.

Have a player-coach relationship with him, and KEEP it that way.  

Answer 3

Yeah, cause your father haven't been there for you and that father and daugther thing wasn't in your life so you see your crush as your father.

So i think this is not crush or love, i think its just like your using your soccer coach to replace your father. So don't take it too far or into any sexual relationship with your coach, cause yoh might make a big mistake. =)

Hope i help...

Answer 4

You need to get over this obsession you have for a 32 year old man. It sounds like you need to have a father figure in your life, but this also sounds like more on your part. No good can possibley come of a relationship between a  14 an 32 year old. Please for your own sake get a grip on your feelings