What should I do after the father, who is an illegal, demands me to give up all rights to my son?

Question

I'm a 17 US citizen. And will be having my baby in December 2008. The father left me after knowing I was going to have his child and refused to send any money to at least help or agree to sending child support when the baby is born but is only coming back cause he found out I am having a boy, and he's always wanted a boy with him having only daughters. Now he is demanding that I give up all rights once my son is born then he is going to move back to his country causing me to never see my child again. I fell in love with my child the minute I found out I was pregnant and want to be in my child's life. Yet the father's family is saying I have no right in the saying cause it is his child too. But I wonder with him being an illegal 25 year old can he and what can I do to stop him.

Answer 1

Hes an illegal. He doesn't have any right to your child because he doesn't have the right to be in this country. Your child is a US citizen. His family doesn't have any right to your child because they aren't authorized to be here.

They are blackmailing you. I think you should tell them that if they keep harassing you, you will have no other option but to turn them in.

It might sound harsh, but they all need to be put in their places, even if that means deporting them.

Since he didn't even want to be in the child's life in the first place, and you are not married, he doesn't really have much right in your childs life anyways.

Be a strong woman and GET HIM OUT OF YOUR LIFE!

Answer 2

You were taken advantage of.  You are a minor and he had no right to sleep with you in the first place even if you agreed.  There are laws against that and you need to go to the police and ask them what can be done.  Just don't lie about anything whatever you do.  The truth will be sufficient and if you lie and get caught it could cost you your son.  Good luck and protect your baby.

Answer 3

If he comes around you I would call the authorities. I wouldn't even let him have visits with the child at all. If he's not a legal citizen then call immigration on his ***. Protect your baby and yourself.

Answer 4

She's right.  He doesn't have any authority over you.  Don't do the same my daughter did.  She named her son after his father who has nothing to do with the child anymore.  Use your last name on the birth certificate, not his.  You are NOT married and have no legal binds to him.  Since he is not in this country legally, he doesn't have to pay support and gets nothing in return.

If you are still worried, seek legal advise.

Answer 5

listen, i don't think he loves you.

Try to go to college. I'm sorry for you.

he is a horrible father. He didn't even want the baby!

Get rid of him. let him go you keep the baby.

He's illegal in this country you can't let him have it call 911 now!

You don't know what he might do to the baby!

he can't take care of it cuz YOU ARE having it!

call 911 or your doctor or something!

Get your mother to help too!

He has no right!

You should move as far away as you can!

HE HAS NO RIGHT!

HE HAS NO RIGHT!

I'm sure the police wouldn't let you give him away plus you go through all that pain just to give it up!

NO!

NO!

NO!

HE'S ILLEGAL!

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