(sorry to post here, but im looking for adult answers)
I've been casually dating this guy for a couple of months...we are both 29. we've been really good friends for a few years. We aren't exclusive, and never had the talk, but since we hang out ALOT, I figured we could always grow into something else eventually...
However, I recently found out that although he considers me his "priority", he is sleeping with three other girls on the side.
I know he is free to see other people, but when I found out, it just turned me completely off and I never want to touch him again.
But since we were never exclusive, he technically didnt do anything wrong. I have been avoiding his phone calls all weekend, and not responding to his texts.
He will most likely email me today, and I really am not ready to speak to him or communicate to him. In spite of it all, I'm hurt and I need to get over it. I guess I always wished I was the one he would really only want to be with.
Since he was technically allowed to date whoever, what should I do?
We were friends for years before we started dating...but I really just want to disappear.... I also want to somehow communicate to him that he shouldnt have put me in that category...
But what should I do, and how do I do it?
Please help
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