OK I have know this person for a long time, off and on. The thing that I have become aware of that it weighing heavy on my mind is the fact that several (5) of her marriages have ended in divorce, and she has had illegitimate kids in these marriages.SHe claims that these extra marital pregnancies were the outcome of a one time thing; every time.
Originally I was told she was a strong religious person that would never have s*x with someone unless she was married to them. Well this last divorce,, she had a live in boyfriend before they were legally separated. I have come to believe that she uses men to get what she wants from them and uses them. Then when the new love feeling has dissipated, she sabotages the relationship so she can move on to the next guy. Mind you they are always at least 10-16 years younger than her, then she complains about how immature they are.
So as you can see I do not agree with her life style and the effect it has on all her kids, and my husband of 18+ years, is not all that happy with me hanging out with her because of her reputation. But I have very few friends and to me she is a decent friend, but can take advantage of my kindness every once in a while.
My question is, should I end this friendship or just limit my time with her. My lifestyle is one that rumors would spread quickly, and could be damaging to my husbands work environment.
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