I just thought I would get a little bit more insight on the subject...I'm not planning on trying to break up a marriage or anything like that...I'm just confused. Let me give you a little more info before ya'll start bashing me...
I'm married but seperated pending a divorce and child custody hearing. My wife has been smoking crack and snorting coke while I'm working my a$$ off and I told her to get out. I have our 4 month old son and I'm going to try to terminate her parental rights. I found out she has a long history of alcohol/drug abuse and mental illness. I can't even begin to tell you how evil she is. She once told me that she wished I would kill myself and said another time that she would kill our son and then herself...so basically SHE's OUT THE DOOR! FOREVER! I did love her at some point because of our son and enough to marry her...now i'm struggling through this divorce. My best friend that I have known all my life and grew up with found out that we could be friends again because my wife is out of the picture and never let me contact my friends (which I honored cause Im an idiot ok I got it) Anyway, since I moved away from her when I was 9 we have always remained close and still visited each other and I have always been in love with her and even got ballsy enough to tell her when I was probably about 13-14 (Im 23 now). She moved off farther away and met her now husband...got married and had a baby...now they moved back closer to home and she has a lot more contact with me almost on a daily basis. I met her husband and he seems like a great guy. I'm so proud of her and I am glad that she has a happy family but these feelings that I have had ALL MY LIFE, even when we were so far apart, won't go away EVER and I don't feel like they ever will...I'm just stuck and don't know what to do...Just looking for some advice...
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