What should I do if my Girlfriend Cheats on me?

Question

I'm joining the army soon, and I have a girlfriend. We have a great relationship together, and normally I wouldn't think this to be a problem at all. Its just I keep hearing all these stories of guys like me coming home to find another dude in his bed with his GF/Wife... How do I know if its going on? If it is, what should I do? Part of me just would want to break it off, but I love her alot, so part of me would want to forgive her... Have any of you ever been in a situation like this?

Answer 1

Buy her a good vibrator and tell her you'll be home as much as you can. If that fails, you're only out the cost of the vibrator.

Answer 2

Leave her.

Answer 3

What do you tell a woman with two black eyes?.....

Nothing you haven't already told her twice!!

Answer 4

My boyfriend is SF so he is always either training or deployed.  If you have a good relationship with her then it's not going to hurt to try..  But if you guys do have a good relationship then you would think you would know something was up.  There are so many people who cheat in the military it's ridiculous (not me), but if you are active duty and want to be in a relationship..  Heads up, you're not going to find many good girlfriend protegees in a military town.  If she's okay with you being in the military and had a good relationship thus far then give it a go.

Answer 5

kick her to the curb if she cheats on you now it will never change - think how it would be while you're deployed. If you're worried about it now it will be 10X worse later...

There are too many women in the world that are honest and faithful - go find one...

Find a "woman"  not a selfish little girl who is insecure.

Answer 6

If she hasn't, you have to have confidence in her because that's no way of living. If she did or will, you will know without expecting and you must kick her butt bye, bye.

Answer 7

cousin is army, went off for 6 months, came back to a girl doing just what your saying. when you think you might know, there's probably something to it. bad for the soul to hold on to something that's holding on to someone else while your too far away to do anything about it. its rough on the mind over there, if she can't sacrifice for you here, you dont want her when you get back.

Answer 8

i would never hit a woman unless in the craziest of circumstances, but i would say one clean backhand and never speak to her again would do the trick.there are also many things you could do to the guy as well, but im not going to type them here.

Answer 9

if you love and trust each other you should be fine

try and contact her as much as you can when your not with her

Answer 10

Kick her to the curb if she cheats

Vet-USAF /  Been there = ex wife now

Answer 11

if shes just a girlfriend trust me... its probably better just to break it off.. your going to be meeting ALOTmore people now and you dont need the stress of freaking out over this...

Answer 12

If you are going to make it as a couple you have to trust her and vice versa.  You will have many times when you will be away from home and you have to be able to trust your significant other.  And remember, it's not on in military relationships where someone cheats, it can happen in many relationships.  I would not personally stay with her if she cheats on you, because this will only be the beginning of many separations.

Good luck