What should I do if my moms new husband is a ***.....Need answers ASAP?

Question

His name is Jared and all he does is curse in every sentence.....No manners either and kissey goo goo my mother in front of me!

Answer 1

Tell him you don't like the cursing and to tone it down in a non confrontation manner.And also tell your mother and him not to kiss in front of you cause you aren't comfortable with it again in a non confrontational manner.hope this helps  

Answer 2

I'm in exactly the same situation but worse... I would talk to your mum and tell her how you feel, But take into account that she must be happy with him and won't like the idea of you saying different...Tell her what you don't like about him and tell her that your relationship would go downhill if he carried on the way he is...If he doesn't change then shes gonna have to find someone more worthy...If she doesn't listen to you at all after many tries then you're just gonna have to accept that ur mum is happy and doesn't want you butting in...

Good Luck ;-)

Answer 3

First, you should be happy for your mother. Second, he should respect you. Tell your mother how you feel about the public affectionate issue. The cussing part will be hard to stop. My father-in-law is an army general and I just had to get use to it. No one is perfect. There's probably somethings you do that he doesn't like. Try playing a game every-time he cusses he has to give you a dollar. Be nice about it. I just got married 2 months ago and newly weds just can't keep there hands off each other. Somethings you have to get use to. They can kiss and hug, but if the making out every hr then no. That's not okay!!! Put yourself in your mothers shoes would you like someone telling you when to be affectionate with the love of your life?? If you don't feel right confronting her write a letter.

Answer 4

People in love are usually this way, however it sounds like he's never been around kids. Its up to your mother to correct his behavior. You, on the other hand, need to stop being jealous and get a more positive attitude. Your mother is happy, you should be too.  

Answer 5

Once your mothers happy you should be to ! i no it might be hard on you but your mother wouldnt be with him if he was a bad guy !! give him a chance

Answer 6

Talk to your mom right away!  If you don't like him now it will only get worse.  If your mom is smart then she will put a stop to the relationship because it is doomed or her relationship with you in the long run will be doomed.  If she talks to her husband and he does try to make changes and compromises then you need to be open and meet him half way.  If this doesn't change then maybe you should consider living with your dad or family member.  Good luck.

Answer 7

Talk to your mom about his bad mouth. tell her how you feel.  BUT if it is just his mouth that is bothering you and the kisses then just be happy for your mom if she is happy.  Maybe his upbringing wasnt so good, slowly show him how to have manners: ask him not to swear or even make money out of it with a swear jar (I hate those suckers).  I too must admit I have a bad mouth, it is very hard to sensor it but I try, I dont swear intentionally.

My moms bf doesnt ever talk to me, she's been with him for 8 years and all I get is a hey here and there LMAO, I dont think he cares for me but Im happy cause he makes my mom happy. Heeyyy.

Answer 8

just remember that your mom picked this a*****e.  he is apparently making her happy-for now.  sometimes in life there are things you have to grin and bare.  this, unfortunately, is one of them.  good luck...

Answer 9

Grow up and get over yourself.

Answer 10

When somebody makes a F on there report card does that effect you? I'm pretty sure your answer will be NO. Maybe there is something for you to learn in all of this,something that is in you. Your feelings are very real to you, but Jared didn't put them there,so where did they come from? Ask yourself  why do you feel the way you do. It's not about what Jared says or what grade he gets on his report card , it's about YOU and  why do you feel the way you do.