What should I do if my twin flame situation is confused?

Question

There is this guy, B., that I feel inside my heart and soul to be my twin flame. We are not together right now, but I feel complete, in peace and harmony, even not being together. I’ve done a lot of research about this subject (twin flames experience) and everything is exactly the same as in the description of such experience. I am so sure about that. I now that there can only be one half and I feel this is true. And since I realized and admitted he is my half, my life enlightened in all the ways. I love him unconditionally and I could live like this forever.., just loving him. At the same time, I feel that we will be together some day, but I don’t know when.

But, this other guy, D., which I have met recently, sees me for the first time in his life and says that I am his other half. He is so sure about it. He knows that I feel to have already met my twin, but even knowing that, he is very sure that I am the One for him. I don’t feel anything for him and I haven’t felt anything when I first saw him. It feels good being in his company, we laugh, we are good pals, but the feelings in my heart are still powerful for the other person, B, it can not compared. I have to admit that this is very strange, because D. thinks seems so sure about us being twin flames!

In this case, when one person recognizes instantly the other, how do we know if we are mistaken or not? For sure, one of us is being wrong about this feeling. How do we know, if the feeling isn’t enough to ensure us?

Those who already are in a twin flame relationship or who passed through this confusion please shared your thoughts, from your experience. Is this a test for me and my half, B. to endure and pass? Or is a sign that I should still be looking and give a chance to D. until the relationship fulfils, in order to convince myself? What should I do? Whom should I believe? My heart or the other person’s?

Answer 1

Simple. No such things as one soul mate/twin flame. Those descriptions of the feelings could equally be applied to someone you are very compatable with, and there may be more than one of them (and they may be slightly different, even). So you can have more than one perfect partner, and sadly, they might not always feel the same way towards you.

Have you ever seen any *empirical* evidence of just one partner as opposed to just people lucky enough to have found one (of potentially many) compatable partners? If not, don't throw your life away on it. Choose whether you like D, or move on. If B is not interested, then don't wait.

Answer 2

Unfortunately there are no ways to be sure!  Follow your heart on this one.  You are much safer following your own instincts than someone else's.  Choose B and stick with him.  Seems to me that you've already answered your own question.  You like D and you don't want to hurt him but there doesn't seem to be a flame on your side for him.  Don't confuse loving someone and being in love with someone.   I think this is where your confusion lies.

Good luck.

Answer 3

Nobody is your other half. 1 person plus a partner equal 2 people. not half and half equal 1.  You should be a whole complete person, secure and confident and fulfilled in yourself and the person you choose to share your life with will enhance, compliment and add to your life.  There is more than one partner suitable for us, there are many possibilities, if there were only 1 person  out other half then statistically speaking, you wouldn´t stand a chance in finding them would you?