What should I do in this situation with my EX boyfriend?

Question

My ex boyfriend... well, we broke up because I thought I wasn't ready for a relationship, and I kind of felt like I didn't have enough freedom. Also, there was this other guy; who I've liked for a year, and whenever he contacted me I got butterflies, etc, but then I realized he will probably never want a relationship with me. So, I'm not talking to him anymore. I've been feeling sad since the break up between me and my boyfriend. :[ He was so sweet to me and he even said to me "Lets face it, we miss each other" and implied that we get back together. Well--I don't know what happened but since then we've been picking little arguments. He accused me of writing on his car, and I said "I'm glad you thought you were worthy of my time" (because he was being a jerk!) and he didn't write back after that. I feel really bad, and sad without him. What should I do? We're 16.

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Answer 1

First of all apologize. You didn't mean what you said so let him know that. He admitted he missed you once so I'm pretty sure right at this moment he's missing you still.

Relationships take work. Whatever is causing the arguements yall need to just work through it. Figure out what you're REALLY fighting about.

And when yall get back together please stay with him if he treats you right. Don't get the "grass is greener" thing going on again and leave him. Good luck to you!

Answer 2

call him and say i want you back and iam unhappy with out you in my life and if you love him say i love you to him

Answer 3

alright, if text is how you feel comfortable talking than this might very well help you out.

you can say this or change it up a bit

"i know your probably still upset but i want you to know i made a mistake by breaking up with you, believe it or not now that i don't have you i've been really sad and missing you all the time, you should know i'd never write on your car or do anything like that to you, i know we were argueing but i think it was just a way we found to keep on talking, i know what i said pissed you off but i didn't mean it. i'm sorry, you can talk to me when your ready"