What should I do now? Please help?

Question

I haven't done anything with my friend in a month, I try to see if she is busy but she always is. She says for the next few weeks she is busy with 4H, and I believe her. The thing is she is always on msn, and it seems when I ask her if she is busy on the computer it is always yes, very busy, but she is on every day. She is my only friend, how can I politely call her and see if she is busy? Are some people just very busy in the summer and don't do much with friends, or what is happening?

Answer 1

I would flat ask her if you have done something to make her mad and ask if she is avoiding you. You may not always like the truth but I would rather have the truth, than to not know at all and wander

Answer 2

Your friend is addicted to the internet,she's possibly chatting with a guy.Find another friend to hang out with.Though do stay in touch with this friend,she could be headed for trouble.

Answer 3

Since she seems to mean alot to you- just ask her if shes blowing u off, Sometimes pple are busy-but maybe u bore her, ask. Either way id just ignore her back make new friends and wait for her to get in touch with u. If she doesnt then obviously she wasnt that great of a friend to begin with-so smile and make better ones.

Answer 4

Talk to her about it and say you would like to hang out and make set plans. If she is not willing to make plans, then sadly she is trying to blow you off. Most people will make time for good friends.  

Answer 5

Some people are real busy, it depends on their schedules. just call and be like "i was just wondering if your were doing anything"

Answer 6

The best thing for you to do is to list the possibilities of the situation like:

1)She doesn't want to be your friend anymore

2)She doesn't like you

3)She actually is busy

Telling yourself the truth of what actually could be happening will be better than lying to yourself about the situation. But see, don't make any assumptions. Just communicate with her and tell her exactly how you feel. Talk to her and sort it out it's the only way you'll find out

Answer 7

Ask her like, hey do you wanna catch a movie sometime or something? Maybe she'll say yes. But maybe she feels shy or something to go somewhere with you, so ask very politely, and maybe just ask her if you can go over her house.