What should I do over this insanely pressuring life of mine?

Question

My bestfriend and I share a lot of shocking secrets.. eversince she had a boyfriend she became really different and careless. I soo hate her right now, she even uses my name when she's asking permission to go out to her mother. And she is not really going out wd me.. She is going out on a date with her bf.. GGRRR.. I mean, I dont even know dt she is using my name, I just knew it from her sister who is a very honest girl.. AND THIS.. I MEAN SHE'S ONLY 13 AND SHE'S not a virgin ANYMORE.. Her having a boyfriend is really BAD.. Should I tell everything to her mother?

Answer 1

Your friend is definitely headed in the wrong direction and it is definitely not the direction that you should want to go.  Even if you aren't doing the things your friend is doing, you will be accused of it just because you hang out with her.  I don't think that it is worth ruining your reputation to be around her.  The best thing you can do is stay away from her and find other people to hang around with.  If it really bothers you that her mother thinks she is hanging out with you when she's not, you could call her house and ask for her when you know she is out with her boyfriend.  That way her mother will know for certain that she isn't with you and will learn what she is really doing.  Of course, the best thing would be to just tell her mother the truth but I know that can be difficult to do when you're younger.  I have young daughters (10 & 12) and I know I would want someone to tell me if it were one of mine doing this.

Answer 2

If I was you i would find another friend. Don't worry her mother  will find out soon enough

Answer 3

She is 13 and not a virgin heck yea you should talk to her parents . Or you could talk to your parents and have them go with you to talk to her mom.

Answer 4

You think you have an insanely pressuring life right now?  Wait until you become an adult!  Best advise.....Find a new friend!

Answer 5

My ex-best friend was exactly the same! I was always her excuse...her parents thought I was the wild child! Anyway, she is way too young for this stuff! I think you should consult this with your sister and see if it's the best thing to do. It probably is, but warn your friend that she oughta stop or she's gonna have to REALLY deal with it. She might be like my friend and put all the blame on you. So watch your back!