What should I do ? ?

Question

I have no friends at all .. not even one ... I don't even have a gf ... I had some friends a few years back, but not a single one now .. im 21 and i am an only child, so i've basically been used to being alone and im extremely shy .. i just can't seem to talk to ppl in a social environment ... sure i have work friends but thats strictly work .. i don't even like them .. we just work together ....

i can't go on anymore ... i have no one to talk to ... no one to share my joys and sorrows .... what should i do .. i feel so lonely.

Answer 1

Join something and such as dance or something that always helps  

Answer 2

You need to stop being so negative. When you give out negative vibes people will feel them and this can put people off. You need to work on your self esteem - join a gym, a club or generally something that will get you out and get mixing with people. Maybe you should try to get to know these "work friends" a bit better, you may like them if you get to know them better. At least you have your health - having friends isn't everything that life has to offer - besides they only let you down half of the time anyway haha ( mine do ). I think you need to be more positive, good luck .....

oh and p.s. i love funkerman haha

Answer 3

Find something you're passionate about & get involved with it.  You'll meet plenty of people who share your interests & before you know it, you'll have friends.  

If you feel like you truly can't go on, please find someone to talk to about this.  No one deserves to go through life in misery!

Answer 4

Join the club :( i'm the same, don't let yourself get as bad as me and go out there and find something you are passionate about and you will eventually become more confident and find more things to talk about in conversations.

It's ok to be shy, society is filled with many extroverts that make us introverts feel like we are missing something.

Email me if you want :) i wouldn't of added you as a contact if i didn't find your questions/answers interesting...seriously.

Answer 5

I have nothing but a house full of kids, so I feel you. But I always think that tomorrow is another day. I had to get some antidepressants before, they really helped. You just need put yourself out there, if not you are going to be lonely forever.....

Answer 6

this is sad

get involved in something you enjoy-

volunteer work and the like

if you want to you can talk to ppl online

and if you feel really lonely im or email me sometime.

l3eautifully_l3roken

it sucks to be lonely, i understand

id love updates if you get involved somewhere