What should I do to be more attractive for husband?

Question

I want to impress my husband and make him fall in love with me and realize I am good enough(I think he is attracted to someone at his work)...

What can I do to make him want me and crave me so he forgets about the other Bi*%$?

I already shaved down there and give him s*x a few times a week.

Answer 1

Play with him.  Board games, cards, checkers, chess whatever.

Play time makes the other person think about you and when they are thinking about you they stop thinking about the other person.

Answer 2

Well, I'm sure a lot of married women go through this stage, I used to go through it. But he likes when I dress s**y, so I do it a lot. And when you walk around the house, show more skin!

Answer 3

It's impressive to know that you are trying to get his attention back...as a guy I think you need to do the following:

1. Lose weight or at least try hard

2. Speak to him something other than issues at work and home, especially when he returns back

3. Allow him at least 2 hours a week to be with his male buddies (no women even if they are friends)

4. Refer to him as "honey", "sugar" etc

5. Say "I love you" as much as you can

6. Don't pester him with his work problems if he does not wish to discuss it with you

7. Dress smartly, always wear good clothes (it doesn't cost much if you shop around well).

8. Keep yourself clean, especially in the sensitive areas.

9. Men love good food, so just try presenting it well

All the above points won't take more than 30 minutes, totally, a day. Try and see the difference.

You have already talked about s*x, so I won't go there.

I'm not talking

Answer 4

Go dye your hair and get a totally new looks, dress differently use a new perfume. Go out with your friends and be home less, make him wonder where you are.

Answer 5

Change your hairstyle but make sure it'll be something he likes. Buy new clothes and start taking care of yourself. Make an effort to always look good even if you're just at home. Be caring, understanding and listen to what he wants. What makes you think he's attracted to someone at work? Hopefully he's just admiring her beauty and nothing more.  

Answer 6

s*x is not always the right way to fix a marriage. you have to ask him were you or both of you went wrong and see if you can repair it. communication is key in a marriage catch him before it is to late.

Answer 7

Go out socially without him.  Become slightly unavailable.  Men like to have something to chase.  

Answer 8

I think you need to forget about looking good for your husband, who if he is interested in another woman, does not deserve it anyways. and start looking good for you. getting your nails done, or a new hairstyle is a great way to boost self esteem, and hit the mall and get a cute new top or a hot dress. do it for you and hey maybe he will catch on and wont be able to take his eyes off you! there is nothing sexier then a woman carries herself with pride! good luck

Answer 9

Your avatar has nice earrings behind your ears. There's another thing women put behind their ears to be attractive to their men. It's called their ankles. Have fun!

Answer 10

If he's not attracted, he's not attracted. If there is someone at work, well, we always want what is forbidden. Talk to him.

Answer 11

Get dressed up like the s**y woman you used to be.  If you wanted a guy's attention, didn't you wear a short shirt and high heels?

Its still hot out.  Be wearing a skimpy short sun dress and nothing else except lots of his favorite perfume when he comes home.  Give him a big wet kiss and a hug.  He'll be all over you when he finds out you're not wearing anything under your dress.

Answer 12

You want your husband to fall in love with you?  Are you saying that he hasn't ever been in love with you?  If so...why did you marry him knowing he wasn't in love with you?  It takes more than "shaving down ther and giving him s*x a few times a week"....to keep a guy around...Do you actually communicate?  Do you spend time together outside the bedroom?

Answer 13

Go to the gym....regardless if you are overweight or not...people that take the time to tone up seem alot healthier & it gives them more of a glow esp. if you include a healthier diet w/more veggies & fruit......change up your look....make sure your clothing is up to date..When you guys go out really make an effort to dress up & look nice! Do it for yourself & for him!!!! Not to out shadow someone!!

Answer 14

i have always found the best way to be in a relationship with someone is in one that has very very few expectations. it goes against what most people think, but if you don't have any expectations on any way that he should be, or any thing you think he ought to do, he probably will feel a lot more free, and he wont want to wander somewhere else. if you are there for him emotionally and don't expect anything of him, dont tell him his faults or live in the past, and just let him be whoever he is at that second, and accept him, i think that's just the best thing you can do. its hard because people don't like letting go like that, but really the more you let go the more people want to be closer to you, they will want to be around you because you dont have an agenda, its unselfish love :) now if you do that and he decides to leave and quit seeing you or whatever or if he leaves for another girl, unfortunately that is what it is. i dont think he will want anyone else if there isnt stress or negativity in his relationship with you. just like people binge on unhealthy things when they diet because they arent getting enough calories/nutrients, when people dont have enough clear time, with nothing to live up to, a time to just be who they are, they will look for relief in the wrong places and ultimately they end up in the same spot they were before that made them unhappy. if you do this, you might find that he is not someone you want to be around, and if you feel that you need to have s*x with him more often and become more attractive so that he wont cheat on you/leave you for another girl it sounds like maybe he isnt the best to you at the moment. overall, the most attractive thing to other people is being accepting of them, but most people just touch the surface of it, and i am not sure if i explained it properly.

so like, say you have him come home or whatever, and you just let him be, you dont have to like, do all the work, but maybe treat him like someone you just met, so you dont have any negative history or assumptions, stuff like that, and he will feel at ease around you, he will feel that you care about who he really is inside, and that he doesnt need to be this person you think he is, the one you fell in love with or whatever. now if he does have some sort of relationship or starts talking to this other woman, and after some time, she will (like everyone) start having these assumptions and have this "projection" of who he is that he has to live up to. over time he will feel more loved and accepted and less stressed when he is around you and it will turn him off to this girl. looks money bla bla bla all these things people hold of high value, are ACTUALLY meaningless to everyone, when you get deeper into your needs as humans. love is pure, its not about s*x, its about how you feel when you are around someone else. that is the root of attraction.

Answer 15

Look if he cheating ignoring it does not help you need to talk to him however make yourself nice for yourself first and then do things for him to make him feel good and little surprises etc but make this ur life goal now to keep the spark alive

Answer 16

Totally take him by surprise.. Surprise him when he least expects it regarding s*x.. use a creative mind...

Talk to him but don't force him to talk..

Take him places go places with him where he likes going...

Try not to complain too much...

Remember how it used to be and try to get back to that....

Good luck

Answer 17

Just make his favorite dinner and rent a good movie that is cute and funny.  Men love Paint your Wagon and women love it too

Answer 18

Walk around the house from time to time in s**y under wears. Imagination and curiosity create anticipation to a good thing to come.