My child does not remember bing molested by dad at 3. It was reported by pediatrician and brought to attention of court, but dropped by me(mom). Now child is 12 and wanting to see dad. Dad only comes around twice/yr at b-day and xmas and gives child everything on the "list" he asks for out of guilt I guess. Other than that child doesn't see dad. Over the yrs he has calls periodically to ask if child is ok but tells the child it is because of mom and her lies that he has chosen not to be a real Dad. Now that child is 12, she wants to see Dad and feels it must be something she has done to make Dad not want her! He called last weekend and told her he hates mom so much for lying on him that he has chosen not to see her! He says it's because of your mom and its all her fault! He made her cry on the phone. She asked him to spend time with her but he said no in spite of her tears. Believe me, I'm ok with no contact because I still don't trust him. What should I tell my child?
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