What should I do to this girl that is supposed to be my friend?

Question

I'm a grown woman. But in this case I don't know what I should do. I met this girl at my previous job. She was the only one I could get along with and vice versa. But sometimes she can be a little bitchy, but not with me. She always asked me to go out to eat but because of school work I wasn't able to everytime she asked but we went shopping many times etc. Since she always asked me to go eat, one day I plan a night out with me, my Boyfriend, another couple and a single guy who is a doctor and very handsome since she is single and asked me to introduce her. She never showed up that night. I called her but never answered her phone. Next day I called her she just give me some bogus story and said sorry, so I forgot all about it.Since last week everytime I call her she says she'll call back but never did. I call her 4 times, she says she is extremely busy and she'll call back and hang up immediately. What should I do? Ignore her?

Answer 1

Possible situations....???

1) She was nervous of hanging out with a guy that she did not know..

2) She is bi and actually likes you....

3) She is a virgin and is afraid you will notice

4) She found a boyfriend...

Should you ignore her?

If she is ignoring you then go ahead and do the same because continuously calling her will get you no where unless of course she is really really weird and decides to press harassment charges against you. :-)

Best of luck

Answer 2

be a homo have s*x with her

Answer 3

Just write her off as a friend... she's being an a**.  Don't know what her problem is, but if you take the time to set up a nice evening, the least she could do is show up, or at least call.  Sounds like she has come kind of secret life going on....

Chalk it up to "lessons learned" -- this isn't a friend.  Good luck.

Answer 4

as she ignored u many times and u tried to keep ur friendship with her but she was the one who refused then let it go and ignore her . let her know what she had lost .