What should I do with her? She treats me like trash!?

Question

I have this friend, D. We were both very close beginning this year together with J. Something happened and we aren't that close anymore but we still talk and hang out at times. The thing is, when she needs my help to look for albums or songs for her, she will talk to me. On normal days, she would just ignore me and not even say a word to me. Even when we meet in the mall, she just pass by like as though I am a stranger. For her B'day they went out to celebrate, and she didn't invite me.

With her treating me like trash, what should I do to her? Last Saturday, she asked me to look for an album for her. I have already found it, but should I give it to her? How do I tell her that I am not her slave and to treat me more like a friend? Or should I just ignore this person who calls herself my FRIEND?

Answer 1

JUST BE LIKE U KNOW WAT ****** FAWK U!

Answer 2

hon..take this 4m some1 wit xperiences....i think she is jes using u..i truly blieve ur a gewd friend but sum1 like tht does not deserve ur time..im not sayin u should stop tlkn 2 her but show her tht ur not a doormat and u deserve 2 b treated like a friend not like trash..gwd luck

Answer 3

Why do you call her your friend? Let her go her way and you go yours!

Answer 4

cut your losses NOW.

if she is gonna treat you like she doesnt care, then you need new friends.

Answer 5

I think that you should tell her how you feel theres no harm to that because both decsions you are deciding to make mean not being her friend anymore. I think you should tell her that you are not her slave and if you want me to do stuff for you you better treat me better as a friend because right now as I see it we are not friends anymore because your treat me like dirt and you just use me to find alubumes and stuff for you . I perssonally think shes just useing you because she knows she can because you think shes your friend and so you do it for her. I think you need to stop doing stuff for her and see how she treats you after you stop and talk to her if she ignores you just ignore her back you sound like a nice person and you dont deserve people who use you so after everything and still dosent treat you right dump her and find new friends.  

Answer 6

I would not give her the album, if she asks again, I would just ask her why she never talks to you other than when she wants something. I would then, just smile and walk away before she even answers. She is not your friend, she is a user.

Answer 7

She is not a friend.  She is a user.  Why are you allowing this to happen to you?  Get busy and find some nice friends that want to hang out with you.  Dump her.  Quit feeding her ego and don't give her the album.  it just fuels her to continue the way she is.  It works for her but not you. It won't get better..how much abuse will you take before you move on?

Answer 8

find better friends!