What should I do with my life?

Question

I don't know what to do at all.

I guess that's the reason why I have no positive friends and basically no life.

I also know that it's terrible that I have to ask complete strangers on-line what to do with my life.

Fact #1: I can't think for myself and others think for me.

Fact #2: I don't know what makes me happy at all.

Fact #3: I have not found my inner-self.

Fact #4: I have a guide from God, but I'm following it in some kind of way.

Fact #5: No one wants to hang out with someone who does nothing with their life, but I have no idea what to, so I'm doing nothing.

Fact #6: I could just try something, but I don't know why I wouldn't do so.

Fact #7: I can't trust.

Answer 1

Never think too far, But you just have to simply love yourself and your life.

Trust yourself first..Only you can do that for oneself and nobody else.

What makes you happy will just come unexpectedly..

You yourself be motivated, no one's going to do that for you..Only you, have that power to make it possible so.

Answer 2

You sound just like me...

I feel like I have no path!

People are like "What are your hobbies" "What do you like to do"...

Ummm.. Watching TV, and getting online.. Isn't something I could make a career out of LOL!

I wish I knew what to tell you.. I just wish you the best.

Answer 3

Make friends with your brain. Get help from books. Philosophy books.

Answer 4

Dear! Dear! However you are not alone.

Watch  this.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oTugjssqO...

and try this.

http://www.emofree.com/

Hope you will find the right direction in your life.

Answer 5

Your age would help answer this question but It's OK...

Have fun... By having fun you get chances to meet new people, make strong friendships, and you discover what things  you like  ... so that's a start!!!!

Be yourself... don't back down for others and do what you want... This way you' ll get self-confidence and you 'll see that then you'll be able to think for yourself...

God can't tell you what you'll do with your life... your life is yours and guess what... it's the only one you'll have... so start doing what your heart wants...because u know what u want but for some reason I think you're afraid to do it...We always know what we want but stereotypes and things like that prevent us from being happy with no worries...

Trust isn't smth you give to people easy... Someone must earn your trust... so at this matter don't start trusting anyone you meet... Get to know them first...

So...you asked what  should you do with your life...

discover what makes you happy...

and then do it...

Take care... Hope I helped!

Answer 6

Life is all about relationships. If there is no relationships life is without purpose. Relationships are only as good as the ones involved. If in your relationship with self you do nothing to improve, learn, seek, give, then you achieve little. In your relationship with God if you do nothing give nothing you get very little.

Cause and effect is a law of living, you get no effects without causes.

Answer 7

Do whatever feels right for you.   But try & do it in positive strokes.

Answer 8

i'm curious as to how old you are.

your facts aren't as factual as you want to believe.  it sounds like you have some self esteem issues to contend with.

fact #1.  you CAN and SHOULD think for yourself.  are you not able to go to the bathroom on your own, or does someone come and tell you its time?  what about when you're hungry, do you eat?

fact #2. can you think of the last time you smiled?  what caused it?  do you listen to music?  do you have a job?

fact #3.  most people go their entire lives without finding their inner self.  The more experiences you have in life; good, bad, indifferent, the more likely you are to really find out who you are.

fact #4.  I don't believe that putting your life in the hands of a god will ever give you the opportunity to really find yourself.

fact #5.  you're right.  so why don't you just go out and do something.  get a job or volunteer to help others.  you will meet lots of new people that do things in their free time that may sound like fun to you.  even if it doesn't, you should try.

fact #6.. see #5.

fact #7.  I find it hard to trust sometimes because of my past experiences.  but you can't always hold bad experiences against new people that come into your life.  you're closing off your doorways to the future.

you have got to just try new things.  even if it's walking out your front door and telling yourself that you're going to meet 2 new people today.  you don't have to like them or be friends with them.  just get new experiences.  your life will change soon.

Answer 9

no, you're not alone.

Fact 1: You can think for yourself. No one needs to think for you.

Fact 2: Try animals such as dogs and cats. They're affectionate and good for when you are upset.

Fact 3: Your inner self is easier to find then you think.

Fact 4: A guide from God is something you follow in the first place. Don't really understand the question...?

Fact 5: If you're like me, you could try writing a book and seeing if it gets published. You feel really good when it does get published, and like life, it takes work.

Fact 6: Try something!!

Fact 7: Not even your friends? I mean, it's ok not to trust us, because we are total complete strangers. But in a way we know you. But you don't need to trust us, not at all.

You could talk to a therapist about everything. They will probably help you more than I will...

Good luck.

Answer 10

pack your bags and go travel around the world (that is if you have enough money). thats what i would want to do.

Answer 11

Do you remember the famous character in "The Catcher in the Rye" by Stalenger. He chose to spend his time preventing disasters happenning to inocently playing children. If you haven't anything better to do you should devote your life to helping others and fixing-up the world a little. Good Luck!

Answer 12

Your last fact tells it all . . .you can't trust . . . .which means plenty of people have tried to help you, but you still do nothing. . .you must be very bored and very boring. . .wake up and smell the roses. . .time here is short. . .when I die, I want to slide into heaven and say. . ."wow, what a ride".. . .go for it. . .

Answer 13

Get some cash and go travelling on your own, i did and it worked for me. I think they call it "finding yourself" which sounds like physco-BS but its strangely true, being on your own out of your comfort zone sharpens your instincts, teaches you self-reliance and self-confidence and broadens your personality

Answer 14

What you should do with your life is to take responsibility for yourself and stop depending on others to make decisions for you.

You, and no one else, are responsible for your life.

Now, stop whining, and get on with it!!!!

Answer 15

It seems that your main problem is #7. Actually you don't have to do anything to develop trust. Just let it happen without distrusting anything and that will open up many doors for you. Even if you don't do a thing for others, it's fine too as long as you don't cause any grief for others. There is nothing more actually required from us any way.

Answer 16

Do whatever satisfies you.

Answer 17

Sometimes we find ourselves or great joy in helping others. I say  while you're pondering what to do, volunteer or work at a local shelter. Helping those less fortunate than me put a lot of things into perspective. However, working with the homeless isn't for everyone so you could try an animal shelter or local humane society too.

At least this way instead of doing nothing you're making a difference!

Good luck and don't worry, everyone goes through this stage in life at least a dozen times! It's healthy to reevaluate what you are doing/where you are going/the people you surround yourself with

Answer 18

You need to think for yourself, and find out what makes you happy. Otherwise you will just continue as you are.