What should I do with this girl for a second date?

Question

The first date went relatively well. I picked her up and we went to play some pool and then watched a horror film at the cinema before dropping her back home. We had a really good laugh and I really liked her. Thing is when I got home she texted me saying "you really didn't like me did u?". I was like "What gave u that idea, we had a good laugh and I think your absolutely gorgeous". She replied saying that she didn't think I was that interested because at the cinema I didn't take her hand or anything to show it. She said she didn't know what I thought of her but that she really really liked me. When I apologised and told her that I also really liked her she said not to worry about it and that she still enjoyed her night anyway but would have wanted to have spended more time with me after the cinema. I told her I would make it up to her on the second date.

Now I need some ideas for what to do to really make her night special. At the end of the night I want to be able to kiss her and ask her if she wants to take this relationship onto the next level. What would be the perfect way to get to this point? We clearly both fancy each other its just picking the right moment. I drive so could I like drive her somewhere after we've been out or sumthin? Thanks ;)

(We're both 18)

Answer 1

Miniature Golf.

It a great opportunity to casually be touchy feely & talk with her to find out what she likes or hasn't done yet while raising the sexual tension through a little competition.

Ask ?'s about things she has done and likes & that will help you decide where she would enjoy a drive to afterwards. Maybe she has never been to the beach at night but she has seen the city lights from the top of the canyon, etc. Choose somewhere she has never done but shows interest in doing.

Don't worry about asking ?'s about "the next level" or "do park & make out". NO girl likes to be put on spot like that, it is embarrassing & a major turnoff.

By the way she interacts with you during the golf game you will be able to know if you should go in for the kiss later on in the date. *Holding hands is a very sensual & exciting thing before your 1st kiss so give yourselves a little bit of time to experience it.

Make sure to find out what time curfew is so you don't upset her parents.

Also at the beginning of the date ask where her hunger level is at, if starving feed her first, if not, wait till later on.

Good Luck!

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Answer 2

Now this is so interesting to picture.

Ok what you did was ok you don't have to go direct and show it to her. What am trying to say is that the next time you go out with her, do like you did but this time hold her waist like she's your girlfriend like that you will blow her fuse in the mind. but wait do not kiss her only if sh goes for it. Play it simple and after the movie, driver her around and go for a late meal after that, depending on what time it will be, go for a short drive like out to a small town nearby and relax there. Then back to her house.

This would love to hear how it will go.

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Answer 3

Take her out for tea to a nice restaurant,sit across from her & gently take hold of her hand & hold it whilst talking & look her in the eye.I would see what vibes you get from her before you take it to the next level,you my just ruin a good thing.

Answer 4

Take her on a riverboat. Pool’s not romantic and a movie’s hardly original.  

Answer 5

anal is always good on the second date.