What should I do?I'm so sad.

Question

I'm 14 dating a 18 year old guy.I seen him last Sunday this is the last time we talked.I slept with him then also and he hasn't called me since.This is the 2nd time he's done this.The 1st time he came to my house slept with me and I didn't hear from him in 6th months.Now he's done it again!!I'm just so sad.

Answer 1

wait - u fell for it twice, im sorry to say you been used....

Answer 2

He used you for s*x, and that is all.  Isn't that evident to you now that he has has you twice and skipped out on you twice?  

Answer 3

Stop having s*x with people until you're older - you'll never make anyone love you by having s*x with them.  When you're older you'll understand that and can have s*x without being taken advantage of.  You might want to think about why you'd give your body so easily to someone who doesn't love you - is that the life you'd like for yourself?  If not, do something about it and set a standard that anyone you're going to have s*x with in the future will have to meet.  Not just what type ofperson they are, but ways they can show you that you can trust them.  

If you did this unprotected, you had better go to your doctor and get tested for STD's/STI's because you can end up destroying your body, getting cancer or carrying diseases to the next person you have s*x with, or even dying yourself.  Decide how you want to use your body now and stay away from dating until you're old enough to handle the lows as well as the highs.  That's maturity.

Answer 4

you poor thing you are to young for you to be being used like this... and he is a sick man to be having s*x with such a young girl.... please dont ruin your life for him

Answer 5

homeboy used u for s*x mama u shuldnt have given in

Answer 6

when i was 14 i slept with men mostly because i didnt think guys my age where mature enough for me but as you will find out older guys are no more mature and there are some hefty consequences, but i hope that you dont have to find that out the hard way. you shouldnt lower yourself letting him use you like that. but when i was that age if some one old me that it wouldnt matter because i had to learn for my self but i defiantly got more then what i asked for. i hope next time you choose to blow him off instead of letting him in your pants, that make you look easy and makes them think that they can take advantage of you when they want to. you need to start playing hard to get and stop thinking that this guy may want to be with you because he obviously just wants your goodies. Think of it this way, why cant this guy date someone his own age? i answered that question myself thinking that i was really more mature then my age but truth is that he really is just a loser.

Answer 7

He's using you. Get rid of that jerk. You don't need him. Focus on yourself, you're worth so much more than that.

Answer 8

Why would you do it again?  

Answer 9

You should get rid of him he doesn't care about you he's way older and he's just using you.

Answer 10

he used u hes prob not going 2 call u take a pregnancy test and forget about him

Answer 11

He's using you. You need to stop having contact with him and please go to see a doctor to get checked for STD's. Also it is illegal for him to be sleeping with you because you are so young. He could get in trouble with the police. Please don't subject yourself to these things and please don't sleep with him again. Best of luck.

Answer 12

He's using you.

Find someone closer to your age, honey.  

Answer 13

tell the police cuz hes a jerk and a pedophile

wat he did was illegal and there may be other girls he did this too

Answer 14

i think you are kinda like his booty call.

dump him now!!

he is a jerk.

Answer 15

hes just using you for s*x find someone else and younger

Answer 16

ha

******* dumbass

Answer 17

hes sooo useing you..ur not dating him he's using you as his w***e just dump him.

Answer 18

Honey he's using you, the best thing for you to do is ditch him and never look back, he's just going to continue to bring you down.

Answer 19

well he's being a **** now isn't he?

if i were you i would just stay away from him do you really want to be one of those girls whos all insecure because guys? just stop talking to him too

i bet it was for s*x though