What should I say to her? ?

Question

So, I like this girl, and she's already told me that she likes me too. I was on MSN today or something, and in her name it said 'missing him :)' so I just figured I'd not talk and wait for her to talk to me in case she didn't want to, I didn't want to bother her you know. I don't see anything wrong with that, I'm not ignoring her, just waiting for her to speak to me first. So she messaged me and asked if she did something to upset me. We've only been talking for a little while now, so I don't wanna get all serious on her. Should I tell her that I was just going to wait for her to talk to me because of what I saw, or just tell her nothing's wrong? I'm kinda thinking I should know whether or not she likes someone else, though that's what it seemed like. I'm not overreacting at all, I'd just like to know.

Answer 1

Just ask her what was up with her status thing on MSN.. If you both said you liked each other, you have an honest reason to be confused! Don't make a big deal of it... I mean, it's probably nothing, but that's just me giving her the benefit of the doubt. If she is bugging you about why you didn't message her and you don't want to say that you were just waiting for her to message first, then you could just say you were doing homework or something, or surfing the internet and didn't have your volume on to hear the little "ping" noise that you get when someone messages you...

Answer 2

i dont think you should tell her you were waiting for her to talk to you firstt. justt tell her nothing was wrong,, & ask her why she thought something was.  

Answer 3

ok you need to talk to her. that miss him could have been a friend or uncle or someone who has passed away. if she likes you and had talked to you, bring up why you didnt talk to her and see whats up. that wont hurt lol. communication and honesty  are important in every relationship, even if its friendship or something unofficial yet.

oh and if you need to explain why you didnt talk to her, yeah just tell her you didnt want to interrupt her.

Answer 4

just tell her what happened, because if u do sya nothing is wrong, .. then she will think that something is wrong and keep on asking you,. so just tell her :)

Answer 5

I would say overacting a tad bit.. Just tell her how you feel not that hard.  

Answer 6

just say something like, i thought i should back off because i saw it said "missing him" and i didnt want to come between you and he.